The question that I have is I feel like a lot of times we feel like it's something that we don't have in order to get to where we're trying to get to.

But sometimes it's something that we do have that we're not willing to let go of.

So my question is, what's the hardest thing that you've had to leave behind, like whether it's a relationship or a belief or something?

What's the hardest thing you've had to let go in order to get to

where you are?

My identity.

My identity as an athlete.

Now, I'm still an athlete.

But my identity as a football player.

Because what a lot of people don't understand unless you've been in it your whole entire life since I was for that was all that I've been told that I am right that's

I got love from support from oh that's Trent my foot my friend that plays this or plays at

Baylor plays the NFL so I wrapped my whole work around that so I had to lose that. I had to literally die to myself and die to that identity that served me for so long. I mean, 20-some years in my life. And so it was tough. But I always say, man, in my loneliest moments is where I really found myself. So letting go of that gave me freedom to go seek the purpose that was really meant for me. And it was hard,

bro. It was hard. I lost friends. I lost myself. I lost everything. $20 to my name of my bank

account. But I asked myself this question. You know what? I couldn't live, and I'll end with this,

I couldn't live with, what if. I can live with, man, I tried and didn't live, and I'll end with this, I couldn't live with, what if.

I can live with, man, I tried and it didn't succeed, but I could not live my life, but what up. And so so many athletes can't let go because they feel like that's their only identity. And I always say, you're limitless. So I'm not just a speaker. Like, I don't like to put titles on my name. I'm Trent Shelton. If you understand what I'm about to tell you, I think this will literally change your life. You know, most people think that life is

about perfection, right? You want everything to go right. And that's cool and it feels good. But that's

not the moment that changes your life. The moment that changed your life is when you understand

that your perspective is either your power or your prison.

A prison perspective blames everybody.

A prison perspective chooses self-pity instead of self-accountability.

A prison perspective stays in their sad story.

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