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Fierce Marriage

The Massive Importance of Margin in Life and Marriage

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.84.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 February 2019

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Too often, we fill our lives to the brim and our marriages suffer as a result. The problem is that life is unpredictable. We need extra space—MARGIN—so we have patience, time, and resources to deal with life's unpredictability in a healthy way. In this week's episode, Ryan and Selena discussed why busyness is overrated, how to prioritize, and three practical areas where margin is vital for a healthier life and marriage. Thanks for listening! Please remember to subscribe, rate, and review. As always, we welcome feedback... simply go to FierceMarriage.com/Podcast (FierceMarriage.com/Podcast) to leave a comment or to ask a question! You can also ask a question via text or voicemail by calling us at (971) 333-1120. Become a Patron! Support for the Fierce Marriage Podcast comes from partners like you via Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/fiercemarriage). If our content has helped you, we'd be honored if you'd consider becoming a patreon supporter! Just visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage (https://www.Patreon.com/FierceMarriage)

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0:00.0

I feel like busyness is a badge of honor these days.

0:03.3

Yeah.

0:04.0

If you're not busy, you're not, you know,

0:06.2

you're not a good person.

0:07.6

You're not living your life.

0:09.1

If you're not scrambling around everywhere.

0:11.1

And I mean, if you ask somebody, how you doing?

0:13.8

The answer's always like, good, busy.

0:15.8

It is like, it's this thing that's so in style.

0:20.3

And so today we want to talk about that

0:22.5

and kind of push against that.

0:24.2

This idea that busyness is a badge of honor.

0:26.2

I think, I don't think anybody really consciously says,

0:28.4

oh yeah, I want to be busy.

0:30.3

But if we think about it, you know,

0:31.7

and kind of there are deep tendencies as people,

0:33.5

is we want to fill every little gap in our lives.

0:36.1

So for a number of reasons that we'll get into,

0:38.6

but anyway, it's going to be an interesting conversation.

0:40.2

Thanks for joining us and we'll see you on the other side.

0:43.2

Welcome to the Fierce Merit Podcast,

0:45.0

where we believe that marriage takes

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