The Male Perspective! Episode #58 Dr. Stephen Snyder

You Are Not Broken

Kelly Casperson, MD

Medicine, Health & Fitness

5 • 743 Ratings

🗓️ 7 February 2021

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Episode 58 - Stephen Snyder, MD A sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist — Dr. Snyder has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. Over 30+ years, he’s helped over 1,500 individuals and couples regain closeness and satisfaction in their relationships. I heard him on a podcast “sexology” and needed to read his book and get him on my podcast. I loved the male perspective, and he offered ways for women to understand the male model of sex in a long-term relationship. - How did you go from MD to sex therapist? - Women are the “chief sexual officer” in the relationship - How women and men are different - The “two step” plan for good sex - In his book, he writes, “your wife is not a lawn mower” – we discuss - He writes – "Good sex definitely make you dumber. And great sex can make you downright stupid." - Sex knots and how to untie them - Why men “go missing” in bed - Tips for talking to your male partner about better sex - Talk about shame and sex! - FIOS – for it’s own sake – enjoy arousal for it’s own sake. He discusses what “simmering” is and why we should enjoy it more. - Why humans are not steam engines - “Everyone over 35 should have a dimmer switch in the bedroom” - ANTs – automatic negative thoughts – so many women have these and body image issues – help please! - Desire – it is becoming an object of FDA approved medications – yet you talk so differently about it, such that it is not needed at all. Please educate us! https://www.sexualityresource.com/ An amazing blog post about female sexual desire: https://www.sexualityresource.com/blog/womens-sexual-desire-and-why-men-often-dont-recognize-it His book is amazing! Find it at: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B073Z8CBQ4&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_PKDWP0312DYJZ99H8YZ4&tag=kellycasperso-20 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Welcome to You Are Not Broken, the only podcast that combines science, medicine, and psychology, to re-educate your brain and help you live your best-love life.
0:15.0	And I'm your host, Ford Certified Female Urologist, Dr. Casperson.
0:31.1	You guys, thanks so much for listening today.
0:35.5	I am talking today with Dr. Steven Snyder, a sex therapist, relationship therapist,
0:37.1	and sexual medicine specialist.
0:41.7	He's dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns.
0:42.8	Over 30 years, he's helped over 1,500 individuals and couples regain closeness and satisfaction
0:48.0	in their relationships.
0:49.5	So I first heard him.
0:50.3	I was driving to work and heard him on a podcast called Sexology.
0:54.0	And I literally, like, I didn't pull over the car, but I was driving to work and heard him on a podcast called Sexology. And I literally,
0:54.8	like, I didn't pull over the car, but I was like hitting the steering wheel a couple of times.
0:59.6	And I was like, I have to read this guy's book and I need to get him on my podcast. He's
1:03.1	excellent, excellent person to talk to. And I loved that he brought forth the male perspective
1:08.6	because a lot of times we don't get the male perspective
1:11.2	and what is the, you know, the guy, the average guy thinking. So he offered ways for women to
1:16.2	understand the male model of sex in a long-term relationship, which I love and I definitely
1:20.5	wanted to talk about today. So thank you so much. Thank you for being here. Can you get us started
1:26.3	of how how you became you? You went to
1:28.5	medical school. And then now you're a sex expert. Yeah, and it's really weird because I'm the guy
1:33.7	giving sex advice. And, you know, when everybody else in college, and you went to medical school,
1:38.4	so everybody else in college is going to parties. We're in the library. So I'm the least guy that ever give sex to us. But I kind of, you know, did a little remedial work along the way. But I went to medical school and figured what
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