The four major needs of a man are different than the four major needs of a woman that this doesn't sound good

But it's a true statement if you married someone normal, they're not like you

Okay, that doesn't sound good

But if you married a no I thought just you know, I thought Karen. She's the most attractive woman in the world

But gosh, she's so weird. You know, oh, you know, she was just so strange and the reason she was strange is she wasn't like me because I'm the epicenter of normal

Normals me

Anything so she was just so different than me and I most people take the energy that God gave them to love each other trying to change each other

And in many marriages, it's a battle of who's who's gonna win? Is this gonna be a woman home or a man home?

Is it gonna be a home where my needs prevail or your needs prevail?

Let me say this in a Christian marriage. It's a win-win situation. No one loses

Everyone gets their needs met but when they're when you have a bad marriage, it means I'm rejecting your inherent differences

Let me say this when you reject my needs you reject me

Hi, I'm Jimmy Evans co-host of the marriage today podcast today

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Jesus

Jesus came to a woman at the well of

Samaria and she'd been married five times and she was living with a man and Jesus said lady if you keep drinking from that water

You're gonna keep being thirsty

But if you knew who was talking to you, you would ask me for a drink and you'd never thirst again

This woman was trying to get her deepest needs met from a human being and you just can't do that the most important issue in marriage

Is your personal relationship with Jesus Christ because only God can meet your four deepest needs which are acceptance

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