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The Psychology of Eating Podcast

The Magic Weight Loss Number: Taking Our Power Back – In Session with Marc David

The Psychology of Eating Podcast

Marc David

Nutrition, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.7586 Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2023

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

For so many of us, numbers hold power. Whether it's our bank account, the calories on our plate, or our final exam score, we give tremendous meaning to numbers.

But there's one number we often give the greatest meaning of all – and that's our weight.

Most of us have a "number" in mind for what we "should" weigh, and we tend to believe in it wholeheartedly. We can place almost mystical significance on that figure, believing that the world – our world – will be so much different when we finally achieve it.

In this episode, we meet 52-year old Reni from Australia, who has been dieting since her 20s. At one point, she *almost* reached her weight loss goal of 55 kilos, but missed it by 1 kilo. 

As Marc David explores with Reni, that 1 extra kilo held significance for her far beyond the weight itself. Reni holds the common belief that she'll feel more confident about herself once she loses the weight. And that extra confidence boost could be just the thing she needs to get out of a job that's draining her soul, and move on to more fulfilling work – something that is of great importance to her.

But as she shares, it's challenging to focus on life goals when she hasn't reached her goal weight.

So how does Reni – and the rest of us – get out of this never-ending loop? How can she take her power back, and place it where it matters most: on who she really wants to be, and how she wants to live her life?

As you'll hear, Marc explores:

✅ Why we place magical or quasi-religious significance on weight, and how this can hold us back from the bigger life we're yearning for

✅ The key mindset shift so many of us can benefit from: focusing on WHO you want to be instead of how much you want to weigh

✅ How to recognize when it's time to have a weight loss "reckoning," and how we can begin to think differently about our bodies – and our life

✅ The role of baby steps when practicing being the "real you"

✅ And more…

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Psychology of Eating podcast, where food and body challenges are the doorway into a happier, healthier life.

0:11.0

Now, here's your host, Eating Psychology Expert and founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David.

0:29.5

Welcome, everybody. I'm Mark David, found of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating.

0:34.7

We are in the Psychology of Eating podcast, and I'm with Rennie today. Welcome, Reni.

0:40.7

Hi, Mark. How are you going? Good, good. I'm glad we're here. I'm glad we're doing this. And for anybody out there who's listening who's new to this podcast, Reni and I are

0:46.9

having a session for the first time. And the idea is to help you move forward with any challenge you're experiencing around food and body.

0:57.5

So Rennie, if you could wave your magic wand and if you can get whatever you wanted around food, around body, what would that be for you?

1:06.9

I guess it would be overall, I don't really want food to control my life as much as it does.

1:14.5

I think about it sort of almost in an obsessive way.

1:20.4

Once I've had my one meal, I'm sort of planning the next already and thinking about what I should have.

1:26.5

And I'm very aware of what I should be having and what I shouldn't be having,

1:32.3

but I don't always manage to succeed in eating the way I should be.

1:37.0

And I guess I also, I want to be healthy overall.

1:42.4

I've got fibromyalgia as well. So I want to be able overall. I've got fibromyalgia as well. And so I want to be able to eat the right things to be able to manage that better.

1:52.1

Yeah, just overall, I would like to have more energy. I'd like to have more self-confidence, lose some weight, obviously.

1:59.6

And just to be able to wear whatever I want to wear and do whatever

2:04.0

I want to do without feeling conscious about it and conscious about my body, just have more

2:07.8

confidence.

2:09.9

How long would you say that you've had the wish to lose weight so you can feel good about yourself, wear what you want, feel more

2:20.5

confident in your body?

2:22.8

Far too long, Mark.

2:24.4

My whole life I've struggled with my weight.

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