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Hi. Hi. So where were we? Part two of the love languages episodes.

Well I have my notes but they're from last week, too,

so I'm all discombobulated.

So help me out.

All right.

Well, I wanted to start off by backtracking a little bit and talking about a few things that we said last week or we started to talk about last week that I either want to clarify or

things that I learned more about. So we were talking about Gary Chapman first

of all being the writer of the love languages and everything and I had already done a bunch of research about the love languages even though we didn't read the book.

And then I listened to a few podcast episodes that actually listeners sent to me and told me to listen to and read some articles.

And it's very interesting, the whole Gary Chapman love languages thing on a bunch of different levels and it made me think about them even more in a way. I mean I was definitely not critical of the love language like most skeptical I was just

sort of like I mean come on like this is really we're trying to do less or is this really what it's come to that we need to really like

decide what are you know we have these needs but I don't really care about these needs or like

none of it to me makes sense even though I think that anytime you're thinking

about your relationship and trying to, you know, improve it or any kind of activity that you're, why are you laughing at me?

Because I'm just thinking like you're like, but I all the needs yeah so there's none that I can

just prioritize and I want all them right yeah and I'm sure a lot of other people do too. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. It's sort of like, you know, you have to, you have to choose, which to me is so I mean first of all again the quiz was

insanity and ridiculous and made no sense to me

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