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The Dad Edge Podcast

The Lessons Larry Wishes He Had Known 10 Years Ago

The Dad Edge Podcast

Larry Hagner

Project, Self-improvement, Stevenson, Podcast, Edge, Education, Kids, Shawn, Family, Kids & Family, Fathers, Fatherhood, Community, Advice, Dad, Good, Health & Fitness, Children

4.81.5K Ratings

🗓️ 25 June 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever asked yourself:

  • "If I could talk to my younger self, what vital lessons would I share about fatherhood?"
  • "Is my 'tough guy' exterior actually holding me back from truly connecting with my kids?"
  • "What does it really mean to lead my family with emotional authenticity?"

If these questions resonate, get ready for an unfiltered, insight-packed conversation that hits at the very heart of modern fatherhood: modeling emotional openness, prioritizing genuine connection, and reimagining what leadership truly looks like at home.

Today, Larry Hagner sits across the table from his son Ethan Hagner. Their deeply touching exchange is a powerful reminder of how universal the struggles of growing up and parenting really are, driven by Larry's determination to provide a steady, affectionate home—a stark contrast to his own chaotic upbringing.

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In this unfiltered, insight-packed conversation, we dig into:

  1. Asking for Help as a Strength: Why vulnerability and reaching out for support are ultimate acts of courage, challenging the traditional "tough guy" parenting narrative.
  2. Empathy Over Solutions: Ethan shares his journey learning to be a better listener, especially in his relationship with his girlfriend, recognizing that people often want understanding and empathy more than immediate fixes.
  3. The Power of Authentic Connection: Larry and Ethan emphasize that genuine presence and open communication are direct drivers of influence in the home, making attempts to motivate or discipline kids far more effective.
  4. The "Marriage-First" Household: A candid discussion on the profound difference a strong, loving parental relationship makes in children's development and present-day family life, even if it means "grossing the kids out with love."
  5. Don’t Hold It In: The crucial message to express pain, stress, and affection openly, allowing your family to see the full, real you for true psychological safety and peace.

This episode offers profound wisdom and practical takeaways for any dad looking to build a legacy of emotional health and connection.

Here's what research and observation highlight about emotional openness in families:

  • Children raised in homes with high parental emotional openness report a 35% increase in emotional intelligence and resilience.
  • Parental modeling of asking for help is correlated with a 40% higher likelihood of children seeking support when needed, reducing feelings of isolation.
  • Families in which parents prioritize and visibly demonstrate a strong marriage report children with 25% higher levels of emotional security and social adjustment.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Dad Edge podcast. The Dad Edge movement creates leaders of men, leaders of families, and leaders of communities. We will not only impact this generation of fathers, but the next generation as well. The kids we are raising will have better chances and odds stacked in their favor because of the amazing example

0:21.2

that their fathers emulated for them. We are here to change the world. We are here to change

0:27.5

relationships. We are here to positively disrupt this generation of fathers so no man goes to their

0:33.5

grave with regret. We disrupt the drift of busyness and replace it with razor-focused

0:39.1

intention, passion,

0:41.4

purpose, and direction.

0:43.7

We are the Dad Edge,

0:45.8

and we're here to change the game.

0:47.8

We're here to change the game. What's up, E.

1:03.3

How you doing, man?

1:05.0

I'm doing really well.

1:05.8

How about you?

1:06.4

A long time to see.

1:07.4

Yeah, it's like it's been a full 12 hours.

1:10.3

Well, I mean, not even that long because like we

1:11.8

live in the same house eight hours oh man so we're at the end of june already you believe that

1:18.2

this is our last show in june or is our fourth show yeah it's uh kind of crazy to think about like

1:22.9

it feels like it's almost flown by a little bit you you know? It has. It definitely hasn't.

1:27.8

Last night, I got to tell you, we, so last night or last week, we recorded a show and we were outside.

1:34.0

That was pretty cool.

1:34.7

Yeah.

1:35.2

Yeah.

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