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Proxy with Yowei Shaw

The Layoff Trilogy 3: HR by Proxy

Proxy with Yowei Shaw

Yowei Shaw

Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.8589 Ratings

🗓️ 23 May 2024

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

The case of the couple who want answers from HR.

Months after Elliot was laid off, he and his husband Miles were still angry — not just about the layoff, but about the way it happened. The smiling HR rep. The severance paperwork no one explained. The desk he wasn’t allowed to pack up. The coffee spilled all over his belongings.

They had questions they couldn’t ask the actual HR person without risking Miles’s job. So Yowei found them a proxy: Catie Maillard, a veteran People Operations professional who has conducted hundreds of layoffs and been laid off herself.

In Proxy’s first-ever proxy conversation, Miles and Elliot ask Catie everything they’ve been carrying about HR, severance, corporate policy, layoff lists, the WARN Act, and why companies can make people feel so disposable. And Catie helps them understand what may have happened behind the scenes — while also giving Elliot something he never got from the company: a real apology.

 

From the episode:

— Catie Maillard — on LinkedIn — more about her work: www.somehowimanagehr.com

— Yowei's unhinged Gold Star music video


New to Proxy? Try Bisexual Wife Guy for a classic case, or Yowei Can’t Speak Bro for a lighter story about male friendship, bro-speak, and emotional translation. 


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, it's YoA. I'm here to tell you about a brand new show in the Radiotopia family,

0:06.1

a partnership with the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and fellow indie network talkhouse.

0:11.5

It's called Music Makes Us, and it's hosted by literal icon, the legendary Kathleen Hannah,

0:18.1

the frontwoman of Bikini Kill and the Tigra.

0:22.9

In each episode, she sits down with revolutionary musicians like Chaka Khan, Olivia Rodriguez, and Haley Williams of Paramore to talk about

0:29.5

things artists really want to talk about, things like perfect lyrics, unforgettable shows,

0:36.1

treasured artifacts, even snacks. You'll also hear bonus episodes

0:40.8

with rock and roll Hall of Fame curator Shelby Morrison, who tells the backstory of an object

0:46.8

from their incredible archive, such as Prince's guitar and Katie Pearson of the B-52's wig.

0:54.2

Music Makes Us is now out wherever you listen to podcasts.

0:59.5

Hello, hi, welcome to Proxy. It's Yo-A. This is the third part of a three-part series on layoffs.

1:07.1

If you haven't heard the first two episodes, go back and listen for the full ride.

1:15.3

How do you feel about working on the weekend?

1:19.9

I'm tired.

1:22.9

That's how I'm feeling.

1:24.0

I feel like it's a beautiful day and I'm about to spend it inside.

1:29.2

I'm in the car with my husband, Kyle.

1:31.6

Last October, right after my story for the big, famous podcast got killed, I was still feeling bad about the layoff.

1:39.3

This was before I started working on the series, and I had all these thoughts, emotions, and creative

1:45.6

energy, and no outlet. So I decided to use the oldest trick in the book for processing feelings,

1:52.7

making a song.

1:54.6

You lay me off. I cry. But I know nothing about writing songs, which is why I've enlisted my poor, sweet music producer, husband, Kyle, to help me.

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