The Law That Quietly Destroyed the American Family | The Deep
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🗓️ 16 October 2025
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Since Ronald Reagan’s 1969 no-fault divorce law, the normalization of divorce has lead to generational harm and entrenched a “me-first” culture which has left family stability by the wayside. In this episode of The Deep, Erika discusses the impact of this issue and looks at how we can rebuild a culture that favors lifelong commitment!
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro: The consequences of no fault divorce
2:40 - Sponsor (Holy Heroes)
3:27 - How did we get here?
6:25 - What happens when no fault divorce is on the table
7:20 - What was wrong with this solution?
8:21 - Sobering data on children of divorce
9:03 - Impact of divorce on culture
10:34 - Why is no one talking about this?
11:41 - The injustice children of divorce experience
12:56 - Rebuilding a culture of commitment!
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| 0:00.0 | In 1969, then California Governor Ronald Reagan signed the nation's first no-fault divorce law. |
| 0:07.0 | He thought it would smooth things over for families who had to go through divorces. |
| 0:12.0 | You know, save time, cut legal costs, and protect the kids from having to sit through ugly court battles. |
| 0:19.0 | But we all know what happened next. Divorce rates |
| 0:22.2 | soared 250% nationwide from 1960 to 1980. Reagan's own son, Michael, later wrote, Dad said |
| 0:31.6 | signing that bill was one of the worst mistakes of his political career. If your parents didn't divorce, your aunts and uncles, |
| 0:39.9 | cousins, teachers, preachers, boyfriends, or best friends parents probably did. And I know no one |
| 0:47.0 | wants to talk about it, but maybe why we don't want to talk about it is because that might |
| 0:52.7 | mean having to figure out how to fix it. |
| 0:56.0 | Today's rate of divorce and all the cultural and personal fallout that comes from it |
| 1:01.0 | would strike anyone from before 1960 as a nightmare scenario. |
| 1:06.0 | But now, over half a century later, we've gotten used to the unthinkable. When a law has the opposite |
| 1:12.9 | effect its framers intended and a 250% opposite effect at that, we would expect some backtracking. |
| 1:21.6 | We would expect someone to raise his hand and say, hit the pause button here. We would expect voter outrage, or at least a public debate. |
| 1:31.0 | But that didn't happen. |
| 1:32.9 | Today, if a candidate even suggests divorce reform, the media sets itself on fire, just to ask J.D. Vance. |
| 1:40.3 | But it's not just the media. |
| 1:42.6 | In the last 20 years, most Americans have become a whole lot more permissive toward divorce. |
| 1:48.0 | The share who said it should be easier to get a divorce was just 29% in 2006. |
| 1:54.0 | Today, 52%. |
| 1:57.0 | Acceptance of divorce has become widespread and normalized, among the very people most hurt by it, the adult children of divorce. |
| 2:06.6 | The data is in, and we have a five-alarm fire. Children of divorce earn less over their lifetimes. They complete fewer years of education. They have poorer physical and mental health outcomes. |
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