In her research, Shanti Feldhan has discovered a lot of men and women interpret feedback differently.

We as women, we don't realize that when we say, oh, thanks for going the lawn, but you missed a spot.

It does not bless.

And we're thinking, but I'm just trying to help.

This is the Revive Our Hearts podcast with Nancy DeMoss Walgamuth, author of Adorn.

For June 30th, 2021, I'm Dana Gresh.

Have you ever thought about kindness is something you need to practice?

Even if you think you're a kind person, you might be surprised how often you forget to show

affirmation and encouragement.

Shanti Feldhan and Nancy DeMoss-Walgamuth are talking about some down-to-earth ways to practice

kindness,

especially in your marriage. Let's listen as Nancy gets us started.

Well, I've been so looking forward to having this conversation with Shanti Feldhan

and kind of diving into her book on the kindness challenge. So I've been alert to this,

Shanty, as I've been in the scripture over the last few days.

And this morning, in my quiet time, came to this verse 21,

whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor.

Pursuing, you have to pursue it.

Righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor. Pursuing, you have to pursue it. Righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor.

It says to me that this is something worth pursuing, that you're going to be the beneficiary

by pursuing kindness.

And that's exactly what you have found in your research that led to this book,

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