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Something You Should Know

The Keys to a Long Term Relationship & How Our Minds Are Quirky - SYSK Choice

Something You Should Know

Mike Carruthers | OmniCastMedia

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Social Sciences, Science

4.54.3K Ratings

🗓️ 26 October 2024

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

From a very early age you were likely told not to lie. Lying is bad. And it seems that one of the things it is bad for is your health! This episode begins by explaining how lying affects your health – and not in a good way. https://newsinfo.nd.edu/news/32424-study-telling-fewer-lies-linked-to-better-health-relationships The idea of marrying someone for love is a relatively recent concept when you look back through human history. Today, it is often the primary reason for marriage. Yet if you look at the divorce statistics, love may not be the magic ingredient to long term relationships. While we are not likely to go back to arranged marriages, there may be something we can learn from them, says psychiatrist George Blair-West author of the book How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life (https://amzn.to/3gQPTyD). Listen as he explains what really works in keeping a relationship together – and it isn’t romantic love.  The human mind works in odd ways. For one thing, we tend to be overconfident in our abilities. We often think other people are having more fun than we are. We also tend to like things simply because they remind us of us – like the letters in your name or the numbers in your birthday! Here to explain all this is David G. Myers. He is a social psychologist and professor of psychology at Hope College and author of a book How Do We Know Ourselves?: Curiosities and Marvels of the Human Mind (https://amzn.to/3fqyP1Z). Every good cook knows you should NEVER wash or rinse mushrooms, you should brush them. That is because mudrooms soak up water like a sponge and that ruins them. But what if that isn’t really true? Listen as I explain. Source: Harold McGee author of On Food and Cooking (https://amzn.to/3UeclA2). PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS!!! INDEED:  Get a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to get your jobs more visibility at https://Indeed.com/SOMETHING  Support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on this podcast.  Indeed.com/SOMETHING.  Terms and conditions apply. SHOPIFY:  Sign up for a $1 per-month trial period at https://Shopify.com/sysk . Go to SHOPIFY.com/sysk to grow your business – no matter what stage you’re in! MINT MOBILE: Cut your wireless bill to $15 a month at https://MintMobile.com/something! $45 upfront payment required (equivalent to $15/mo.).  New customers on first 3 month plan only. Additional taxes, fees, & restrictions apply. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

As a listener to something you should know, I can only assume that you are someone who likes to learn about new and interesting things

0:08.0

and bring more knowledge to work for you in your everyday life.

0:12.0

I mean, that's kind of what something you should

0:14.1

know was all about. And so I want to invite you to listen to another

0:18.2

podcast called TED Talks Daily. Now you know about Ted Talks, right?

0:23.7

Many of the guests on something you should know have done Ted Talks.

0:28.0

Well you see, Ted Talks Daily is a podcast that brings you a new TED Talk every weekday in less than 15 minutes.

0:35.0

Join host Elise Hugh.

0:37.0

She goes beyond the headline, so you can hear about the big ideas shaping our future.

0:43.0

Learn about things like sustainable fashion,

0:46.0

embracing your entrepreneurial spirit,

0:48.0

the future of robotics, and so much more.

0:52.0

Like I said, if you like this podcast something you should know

0:55.5

I'm pretty sure you're gonna like TED Talks Daily and you get TED Talks Daily

1:00.6

wherever you get your podcast.

1:02.6

Today on something you should know, why lying, even a little bit can be bad for your health.

1:11.6

Then what's the secret of long-term love? Well, there are a couple of

1:15.8

them, but here's one. When we know that our partner, even though they know all of our

1:20.8

shortcomings, still wants to be there and care about us.

1:24.4

Going through life with somebody who makes you feel that way is golf.

1:29.0

It really is the essence of the feeling of a long-term relationship.

1:33.0

Also, a myth about mushrooms you probably believe,

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