being around Ryan, right?

Ryan is freaking intense and he is he is who he is on social media in real life.

Like he really works hard,

again I'm gonna say it so slowly, he works hard

to be a good father and husband.

He works hard in his business. Like he's freaking bouncing around doing

work. He's not procrastinating. He's not distracted. He's working hard. His

finances, I know he works hard. He's investing. He's doing all these things and

Recently I was just like dude like how do I level up like I'm good you know I'm a millionaire all this crap but like how do I get to the next level and I spoke to him about it and he was like dude like you you got to step up at your house because if your house is messed up your finances aren't going to do what they could do.

You waste a lot of time at the office chitchat and all this crap. you need to like stop wasting time and you have

think bigger he told me all that crap and I was like my initial feelings were it

hurt my feelings I was like I do work hard, I am a good father, I am a I am this, I am that and

like my wife should love me more I should make more money my it's I don't make more money because it's my sales team's fault they're not calling enough they're lazy this person's this this person's that and then slowly I came to the realization that it is all my fault. If I make a

million dollars, you know not a sad story, it's because I'm putting a million

dollars worth of effort.

If I have an unhappy marriage, it's because I'm putting that much effort.

And I think a lot of it has to do with emotions and like mental health one aspect of it.

I a thousand percent agree with you.

Yeah.

Do you want to get into that when you finish your point?

We could, yeah.

But I think I never realized how important emotions were.

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