Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

There's only two changes you've ever made in your life.

It's the ones that you've discovered for yourself or the ones that you're forced to make.

That's it. There's nothing else.

It's either what you've seen for yourself and... That's it. nothing else. Yeah.

It's either what you've seen for yourself

and what you're forced,

just kind of getting shoved in your face, right?

Like it's right there, which is a lot of my work.

You know, I present people with something that you're either going to try and escape from or you're going to push through. But you should know that if you're trying to escape from it, it's still there.

You know, like it's amazing how folks,

when you confront something as serious as this,

they will fight for their misery.

Absolutely. They'll fight for it. They will argue with their misery. Absolutely.

They will argue with you for it.

Like I'll say something like this, I'll say,

it's not what happened to you is what you decided after.

And they'll say, no, no, it's what happened to me.

And I'll say, no, it's what happened to me. And I'll say, no, no, no, no, it's what happened to me.

Because if that hadn't happened, then I wouldn't have had that.

Right.

So after, and I'll say, well, no, there's 50,000 thoughts you could have had after.

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