All right, so bring in our first born home from the hospital. Oh, yes, you know what 30. How old is he 35 years ago?

So CJ 35 years old now married, but when he was an infant brought him home put him in the crib and our rental house

Remember that place and literally stood over the crib looking down and what was I thinking?

I have no idea what to do. That's exactly what I was thinking. I was like I have no clue

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You were thinking it too, but I also was thinking I never had a dad. So I don't know how to be a dad. I've never had a baby.

I remember picking up your brother's Ted when he was a baby and everybody in the house was throwing him up in the air

And I'd never done that because I had never been around baby. So I take him and throw him up here and he hits the ceiling.

Everybody looked at me like are you clueless? So there I am now. I'm a dad and I have no clue what to do.

And I think most parents feel like that and they bring their baby home and they're thinking now what?

And then they enter the toddlers or the two and three year old that's hard and then they have teenagers and each stage

you're trying to figure out now what do I do. And so we're all looking for help.

Yeah and I am excited to tell you we have in the studio with us today help.

For all parents we have two dads right who we've had here before because you know what Ann and I call you guys

you're the brain guys. We've got Dr. Mark Warner with us today in Chris Corsi. You've been with us

before we're going to say welcome back to Family Life today. Appreciate it. It's good to be here.

Two years ago you were here you wrote a book called The Four Habits of Joy Filled Marriages. Did I say

right? You did? And I got to tell you you don't know this but after that time with you guys we stole

that material. I preached it at my church. We actually did a message on it on the Family Life.

Love like you mean it. Crews. We did. Wow. We gave you credit. Oh, I don't think we gave

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