The Infinite Game of Marriage with Cara Miller
The Dad Edge Podcast
Larry Hagner
4.8 • 1.6K Ratings
🗓️ 5 November 2018
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
If we think of marriage as a game, we immediately strategize on how to win our spouses' hearts the way we did the very first time. The problem is that our partners grow and change throughout life. To keep dating your spouse like you did in the past is not going to work anymore. As you will hear on our show today, the game of marriage is infinite. The goal is not to win, but to keep playing.
Today we have our fourth female guest on The Dad Edge. Her name is Cara Miller and she a developmental coach with a unique academic background, including wealth of insightful knowledge about how people connect and feel that sense of belonging that is so important for a rich, fulfilling life.
In this episode, Cara Miller tells how to initiate change in our relationships by dating our spouses for who they are today instead of who they were when we first met them. She reveals simple, actionable steps we can take to become experts on the people we love, including kids, friends, and coworkers.
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| 0:00.0 | We are men. We are warriors. We are dads with a purpose. Dad's with an edge. We sharpen our skills so we can show up best for others. |
| 0:15.0 | We have one shot in life to be a dad. |
| 0:20.0 | Why not make it epic? Hey what's up, |
| 0:28.0 | Hey what's up boys? |
| 0:30.0 | Welcome to the Dad Edge podcast. |
| 0:32.0 | Hope you guys are having an amazing week. |
| 0:35.0 | I've got a great show for you today and an epic guest. |
| 0:38.0 | And the question that I have for you guys is, |
| 0:42.0 | Do you ever feel like a human doing and not a human being? And I'm sure the answer |
| 0:48.4 | that is yes because we are always completing tasks, we are always doing things, we are always checking the box, |
| 0:56.6 | we're always going back to our to do list |
| 0:58.8 | and completing like all these things. |
| 1:01.2 | And if you think about how we are evolving, some of us are evolving |
| 1:05.2 | into what we call more human doings versus human beings. And obviously that's not something that probably |
| 1:11.6 | a lot of us have a goal to achieve is to be a human doing. |
| 1:14.9 | We want to be a human being. |
| 1:18.5 | And I'm really excited to bring you guys today's show. |
| 1:20.8 | I think you guys will get a lot out of it. I have I think gosh let me think here my |
| 1:25.2 | maybe my fourth female guest that I've ever had on the show and I enjoy having a lot of |
| 1:32.1 | our female guests because they just give us just a different perspective |
| 1:36.5 | on being a husband, being a man, how women, how are the women in our lives really view us and what they expect out of us and how we can even connect with them better. |
| 1:47.0 | And so I've got actually Dr. Kara Miller, who is a professor. |
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