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Famous at Home

The Heart of Meaningful Connection with Bill Lokey (Part 2 of 4)

Famous at Home

Josh + Christi Straub

Parenting, Relationships, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Kids & Family

4.9653 Ratings

🗓️ 21 December 2023

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

In loving memory of our friend, mentor, and father figure, Bill Lokey, we're releasing this four-part series, recorded in 2020, to share with you again Bill's insights on leadership, connection, and trauma.

Bill joins Josh for part 2 of our 4-part series, and this week, we talk about something we all tend to struggle with: meaningful connection and how we show up with those we love.

In part 2, Josh and Bill talk about:
  • The barriers to meaningful connection and how we can overcome them
  • Shame as a bad motivator for change
  • How to silence shame so we can connect deeply with others
  • How self-medicators keep us from intimacy
  • What it feels like to spend time with someone who really likes you
  • How to show up for someone you really like spending time with
  • Spiritual disciplines for meaningful connection with God
Show Notes:

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Transcript

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0:00.0

I think oftentimes we kind of get this guilt about worship is like, oh, gosh, yeah, we're not

0:04.7

worshiping enough or not doing a devotional enough.

0:07.2

But even that can be so filled from a place of I ought to that it's just guilt-laden.

0:16.0

And I've always said shame is only a, it's not a very good motivator.

0:19.1

It only motivates for about 48 hours.

0:21.7

You are listening to the Famous at Home podcast with Dr. Josh and Christy Straub.

0:27.4

Because when it's all said and done, we all want to know that we were famous at home.

0:43.5

Welcome back to the Famous at Home podcast. We are in a series today as part two of that series with my friend, mentor, and father figure. He's a spiritual father to me in a lot of ways,

0:48.3

Bill Loki. Today we are talking about the heart of connection and the importance of

0:53.9

friendship, the importance of connection, the importance of friendship, the importance of

0:55.0

connection, the importance of relationship. As we talk about these topics, Bill and I started

1:00.6

the Leaders Heart cohort a few years back. And I really want to encourage you. We have a new one

1:06.1

launching February 26 to 29. It is a six-month cohort. and we would love to have you join us. Click the link

1:13.1

in the show notes, apply or set up a phone call with me, and we'll get you in. Seats are filling

1:18.4

up, so I just want to encourage you if you're even thinking about it to go ahead and get registered.

1:22.6

These interviews that Bill and I did were launched in 2020, and this was when Bill was with us. He has since

1:29.6

gone to be with the Lord. And so in a way to honor Bill and also keep the heart of leader's heart

1:35.6

going, I want to introduce you to part two, the heart of connection with Bill Loki.

1:42.2

Welcome back to the Famous at Home podcast.

1:49.4

We are here today coming to you talking in the middle of our leadership series and I got my co-host Bill Loki with me, Bill.

1:52.0

Welcome today.

1:52.6

Hey, Josh.

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