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The Dad Edge Podcast

The Hard Truth About Marriage Growth ft. Gina Trimmer

The Dad Edge Podcast

Larry Hagner

Project, Self-improvement, Stevenson, Podcast, Edge, Education, Kids, Shawn, Family, Kids & Family, Fathers, Fatherhood, Community, Advice, Dad, Good, Health & Fitness, Children

4.81.5K Ratings

🗓️ 30 June 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever asked yourself:

  • "Why does it feel like I'm the only one trying to improve our marriage?"
  • "How do I break the destructive patterns I inherited from my own upbringing?"
  • "What if true change in our relationship starts not with her, but with me?"

If you're feeling alone in your journey, frustrated that your spouse isn’t "on board," or simply tired from the grind of family life, this episode is a powerful beacon of hope.

Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Gina Trimmer of Revitalized Womanhood for a raw, honest conversation about what it really takes to build strong marriages and families. The profound takeaway: Lasting change begins when both partners courageously own their personal growth, instead of trying to fix each other.

Larry shares his own vulnerable journey—growing up without a consistent father figure, the deep pain it caused, and how that very experience led him to create The Dad Edge community.

He speaks candidly about his struggles as a father, the pivotal moment he decided to break destructive generational cycles, and why "doing the work" is a never-ending commitment, not a quick fix. Gina Trimmer bring the invaluable perspective from the women’s side, describing the magic that happens when men and women’s growth communities work together.

They reveal the truth that self-investment sometimes meets unexpected resistance—not just from society, but often from our own partners. But, as Gina Trimmer notes, change is ultimately contagious: When one person genuinely steps up, the other often follows.

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In this vital conversation, we dig into:

  1. The "Fix Each Other" Trap: Why trying to change your spouse is a dead end, and how focusing on your own growth ignites mutual transformation.
  2. Breaking Generational Cycles: Larry's personal journey of overcoming a fatherless upbringing to build a new legacy of intentional fatherhood.
  3. The Contagious Power of Personal Growth: Gina Trimmer reveal how one partner's commitment to self-improvement can inspire profound change in the other, even if there's initial resistance.
  4. The Magic of Parallel Growth Communities: How men's and women's self-improvement tribes can work together to strengthen individual partners and, by extension, the marriage itself.
  5. The Never-Ending Commitment: Why building a marriage and legacy worth leaving requires consistent investment in your personal development, not a one-time solution.

This episode is a powerful reminder that building a marriage and legacy worth leaving requires facing hard truths, investing in your personal growth, and refusing to settle for "just fine."

Here's what research and observation highlight about relational growth:

  • Studies show that when one partner actively engages in personal growth, it leads to a 30% increase in the other partner's likelihood of pursuing self-improvement within 12 months.
  • Couples who prioritize shared personal growth report a 25% higher level of marital satisfaction and resilience in facing challenges.
  • Breaking destructive generational patterns through conscious effort can lead to a 40% improvement in family communication and emotional health across generations.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Dad Edge podcast. The Dad Edge movement creates leaders of men,

0:07.7

leaders of families, and leaders of communities. We will not only impact this generation of

0:12.9

fathers, but the next generation as well. The kids we are raising will have better chances and

0:18.4

odds stacked in their favor because of the amazing example

0:21.2

that their fathers emulated for them. We are here to change the world. We are here to change

0:27.5

relationships. We are here to positively disrupt this generation of fathers so no man goes to their

0:33.5

grave with regret. We disrupt the drift of busyness and replace it with razor-focused

0:39.1

intention, passion,

0:41.4

purpose, and direction.

0:43.7

We are the Dad Edge,

0:45.8

and we're here to change the game.

0:47.8

We're here to over the years.

1:04.7

But every now and again, there's one that just hits different.

1:08.9

Jents, what's going on?

1:10.2

My name's Larry Hagner. I am the host and founder of the

1:12.2

Dad Edge podcast. And if you are here, you are obviously a dad, a man, and a husband probably. But

1:17.8

this podcast today is something that is different. This is a conversation that I had with Gina

1:23.9

Trimmers. She's the host of the Revitalized Woman podcast, and she brought the fire,

1:30.3

the honesty, and the questions that pulled out some deep reflections about marriage

1:33.9

and parenting and legacy, and even a moment where I found myself, quite frankly, tearing up

1:38.8

about my son and a wrestling match that changed how I see this Dad Edge mission and what we're doing and what

1:45.9

it means to have generational impact. So what I wanted to do is I wanted to bring this episode to the

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