The Great Marriage Killer
Ask Pastor John
Desiring God
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🗓️ 29 September 2017
⏱️ 10 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Well, what is the difference between unholy anger and holy anger? |
| 0:08.4 | And does that difference have any application to our own lives? |
| 0:11.6 | This is the question today from a listener named Renee. |
| 0:15.0 | Pastor John, hello, and thank you for taking my question. |
| 0:17.4 | I hear the phrase righteous anger use a lot, but I'm not 100% clear on what that looks |
| 0:22.4 | like or what makes anger righteous or sinful. |
| 0:26.1 | I understand that we are to fill anger towards sin. |
| 0:29.5 | Jesus overturned tables in his anger, but I don't think we should respond to sin by breaking |
| 0:34.0 | things. |
| 0:35.0 | So how does righteous anger play itself out for the Christian? |
| 0:38.6 | What does it look like towards people, towards sin, and towards the devil himself? |
| 0:43.2 | Well, I was much more optimistic about a righteous place for anger when I was 30 than I am now. |
| 0:54.8 | I have seen the destructive power of anger in relationships, especially marriage, to such |
| 1:03.0 | a degree over the last 40, 50 years that I am far less sanguine about so-called righteous |
| 1:11.5 | anger than I once was. |
| 1:13.9 | Anger is not just a relationship destroyer, it is a self-destroyer. |
| 1:21.8 | It eats up all other wholesome emotions. |
| 1:28.2 | If it is not dealt with, it consumes everything in its past and leaves a woman or a man with |
| 1:37.0 | nothing but bitterness and anger. |
| 1:40.6 | They are not capable of any other emotion. |
| 1:45.3 | It is either silence or anger, and it is a horrible development. |
| 1:51.4 | Therefore, the overwhelming message of the New Testament is, this is Colossians 3.8, put |
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