I told you about my first ever meeting of the management executive at Wallstones with

Alan Giles and I happened to be sitting next to Alan I told you this can this be.

It's very bad.

No, but Alan had written at the top of his piece of paper, good morning everyone.

This is a man who left nothing to chance.

You know.

That's like my husband who writes at the top of the...

My shopping list list take list.

Does he take the list?

I'm sure it's a shock to discover.

I'm a late comer to the world of lists but I you know as you get older you just do forget things I used to think that I had a really brilliant memory

would never forget anything but I just don't know whether it's just age and

there's more lumber in the in the old storeroom or whether you really do start to

lose the plot I don't know but I mean that I can go to the shop now and come back and have literally forgotten the one thing,

you know, the chicken that I'm supposed to buy.

We have the tradition now on our shopping list, then the Mueller family, of also having a pseudo list, where what we do

is we try and meal plan for the week ahead,

but both of us feel resentful of having to do it.

So we write things on Friday, pot luck.

The resentment is important. You know, the boys, this is how it was tragic.

It said, why don't we have a list on the fridge of things that we need and I said

because then I would feel my life was a meaningless empty void and I would not be able I just

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