I love what you talk about when you kind of touch on that difference between consumer versus

companion mentality and dating.

So what does that look like?

Yeah, that's another big one too.

Yeah.

I'm asking you all that questions.

I have all these questions.

I want everybody to know.

Yeah.

So consumer mentality, I think there's a tendency, and I saw it in college too, people would

start listing.

Well, I want them to be tall, but not too tall.

I want them to be fit, but not obsessed with this body.

I want them to be funny.

But like, and we start to like create this list of characteristics, like you'd curate

a playlist, but what you created is not a real human.

Because no one, no one adds to the list, they're problems.

And I want them to be a little disorganized.

And I want them to have some issues with anger.

Like you don't add those.

So you create a fake person and hold a real person up to an impossible standard.

Wow.

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