Welcome to the Girl on Top Shallin XO Podcast. I'm your host

Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel where I analyze

celebrities and

the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here on the podcast,

I answer the best questions you submitted

over the past week.

And today, we're going to be talking about

whether or not you can train a guy, change a cheater, and if our bad decisions

are really faded with a bad dude, or if it's actually just a lot of shame.

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YouTube for new videos every other day. This question is actually a follow-up question to someone I've been talking to for a little while now about this ongoing

dude that she's basically like kind of trapped on an island with over the summer like she's

in Martha's Vineyard and it's a very small population and she keeps

running into the same guy and he's like the guy everybody wants the guy who has a

terrible reputation of like basically hooking up with girls and never speaking to them again.

I mean, you know, the standard fuck boy nonsense.

But of course, she thinks maybe she's different. Maybe things will be different. I've said in multiple messages no

things are not going to be different. A principle of psychology is that the best

indicator of future behavior is past behavior.

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