The Gift Of Shame & Changing A Cheater
Crowned & Cancelled
Shallon Lester
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 15 July 2019
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
Can you change a cheater? Or train an unchivalrous manchild? I’ll tell you when to walk away, plus how to deal with a guy friend who’s caught feelings AND, one of the most self destructive things we can tell ourselves!. . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 @ShallonXO
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Girl on Top Shallin XO Podcast. I'm your host |
| 0:07.5 | Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel where I analyze |
| 0:11.0 | celebrities and |
| 0:13.0 | the lessons we can take into our own lives. |
| 0:15.0 | But here on the podcast, |
| 0:16.0 | I answer the best questions you submitted |
| 0:18.0 | over the past week. |
| 0:19.0 | And today, we're going to be talking about |
| 0:21.0 | whether or not you can train a guy, change a cheater, and if our bad decisions |
| 0:25.8 | are really faded with a bad dude, or if it's actually just a lot of shame. |
| 0:31.7 | And a reminder, if you want to chat with you privately find me on the |
| 0:34.7 | instant go app, username shall and XO and click chat to get connected and yes now it's |
| 0:39.5 | available on Android and iOS and be sure to rate and review this podcast if you like it and find me on |
| 0:45.1 | YouTube for new videos every other day. This question is actually a follow-up question to someone I've been talking to for a little while now about this ongoing |
| 1:05.2 | dude that she's basically like kind of trapped on an island with over the summer like she's |
| 1:10.4 | in Martha's Vineyard and it's a very small population and she keeps |
| 1:14.1 | running into the same guy and he's like the guy everybody wants the guy who has a |
| 1:19.2 | terrible reputation of like basically hooking up with girls and never speaking to them again. |
| 1:24.8 | I mean, you know, the standard fuck boy nonsense. |
| 1:28.2 | But of course, she thinks maybe she's different. Maybe things will be different. I've said in multiple messages no |
| 1:36.3 | things are not going to be different. A principle of psychology is that the best |
| 1:41.4 | indicator of future behavior is past behavior. |
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