The Fourth Pillar Of A Secure Relationship (Reach & Respond)
Relationship Advice
Colter Bloxom
4.4 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 26 January 2026
⏱️ 52 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Abercrombie knows how denim should fit and feel, and this year is about curating a denim collection that carries your closet. |
| 0:07.7 | Head straight to Abercrombie's baggy and ultra baggy fits. |
| 0:11.1 | These are the pairs that turn any tea or shirt into a full outfit. |
| 0:15.3 | All of their jeans come in classic fit with select jeans available athletic fit, |
| 0:19.6 | designed for guys who want more room in the thigh. |
| 0:22.4 | Shop Abercrombie denim in the app, online, and in stores. |
| 0:28.9 | Hey friends, welcome to relationship advice. I'm Coulter. |
| 0:32.3 | And I'm Lauren, and we will be joined with our friend Kayla in just a moment. |
| 0:36.1 | We are all licensed professional therapists and real-life friends who care deeply about helping people feel more connected in their relationships. |
| 0:42.7 | On this show, we help you make sense of these stuck spots, the patterns, the fights, the disconnections that keep showing up even when you're really putting in the work. |
| 0:50.8 | You can expect honest conversations, practical insight, and stories that help you |
| 0:55.1 | understand why things feel hard and what actually helps. Whether you're here to improve your |
| 1:00.2 | relationship, understand yourself better, or just feel a little less alone. You're in the right place. |
| 1:05.5 | Let's get into today's episode. All right, imagine a couple standing in the kitchen late at night. |
| 1:18.6 | The house is quiet and one of them finally says, |
| 1:21.8 | I feel like I don't matter to you anymore. |
| 1:24.3 | That sentence is a reach. |
| 1:25.9 | It's not polish. |
| 1:26.8 | It's not strategic. It's raw. |
| 1:29.3 | Underneath it are emotion, meaning, and a tender spot that's been brushed up against too |
| 1:33.2 | many times. Now, imagine two possible responses. In one version, the other person hears criticism |
| 1:40.0 | and fires back with facts. That's not true. I do plenty. You're being unfair. The cycle tightens. |
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