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The PedsDocTalk Podcast

The Follow-Up: What Makes a Marriage Work

The PedsDocTalk Podcast

Dr. Mona Amin

Medicine, Health & Fitness, Kids & Family, Parenting

51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2025

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

In this honest and personal episode, I’m joined by my husband, Gaurav, as we open up about what makes our marriage work—especially through the chaos of parenting, career shifts, and everyday life. We talk about: The power of balancing each other’s strengths and weaknesses How we’ve navigated trauma, including our son's birth and postpartum period Our nightly “State of the Union” check-ins—and why they’ve changed our relationship What we’ve learned about love languages, communication styles, and unmet expectations How we’ve moved from trying to “fix” each other to simply understanding and growing together Marriage isn't always picture-perfect—and that’s exactly why these kinds of conversations matter. Whether you're partnered, married, or navigating love while raising kids, this episode offers a real-world look at building connection, even in the messy moments. Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and ⁠subscribe to PedsDocTalk⁠. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠ page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the follow-up.

0:03.7

I'm Dr. Mona, your pediatrician, mom friend, and provider of the Monday parenting pick-me-up

0:07.9

you didn't know you needed. These episodes are like surprise snacks you find in the bottom of

0:12.7

your purse, a small, little smush, but surprisingly satisfying nugget. Today's clip, it's not

0:18.4

about toddler tantrums, unless we're counting the adult kind.

0:21.6

I'm revisiting this conversation with my husband, Gorov, because your relationship with your

0:25.9

partner, if you have one, isn't just background noise in parenting. It's the rhythm that

0:30.1

keeps the whole household moving. We're diving into what keeps us connected, check-ins,

0:34.7

communication, and embracing, not fixing each other's differences,

0:38.4

because real partnership means finding strength in the contrast, in communication, and showing up

0:43.6

even when the day's been a mess. If you've been meaning to reconnect, hit pause on the to-do list

0:49.1

or send that we're still a team text. This episode is for you. Let's get into it.

1:01.7

But what do you think makes our marriage work?

1:04.7

Like, what do you think are the good things that kind of you'll say, you know what,

1:06.7

this is something that helps us? This is something that, you know, helps our communication, things like that.

1:10.5

I think one of the biggest things for you and I, and I mentioned this quite often to you, is that

1:15.2

one person's strengths are the other person's weakness and vice versa.

1:20.2

And so that's very apparent in our marriage, as you know, that there are certain things that I'm

1:25.1

really good at and certain things that I'm not great at. And I'll

1:28.5

give an example to everyone. It's like, you know, organization and being on top of deadlines and

1:33.8

making sure that food meals are scheduled and Ryan's things are scheduled and all that stuff. Like,

1:38.9

that is where you excel at more than anyone. And those are areas in life where I could probably do better.

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