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The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom

The Follow-Up: Teaching Kids Responsibility

The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom

Dr. Mona Amin

Medicine, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Parenting

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

Ever clean up the toys, turn around, and somehow the mess is worse? Or feel like you are the only one picking things up? In this Follow Up episode, Dr. Mona is joined by Tyler Moore, also known as Tidy Dad, to talk about how to involve kids in household routines in ways that actually work for real life. Not rewards. Not sticker charts. Just teamwork. They break down how chores build belonging, how to set developmentally appropriate expectations, and simple system changes that help kids help more, from tidying toys to getting out the door with less stress. If you are trying to declutter, simplify routines, or stop feeling like the household manager of everything, this episode is for you. We discuss: Why involving kids in routines builds belonging, not just responsibility How to think about chores as teamwork instead of punishment What kids can realistically help with at different ages Why breaking tasks into small steps reduces frustration for everyone How to set up your home so kids can help independently Simple system changes that make mornings and clean up easier Why resistance often means a skill is missing, not defiance Want more? Listen to the full, original episode. Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and ⁠subscribe to PedsDocTalk⁠. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠ page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the follow-up.

0:03.7

A series on the show where we revisit conversations in less time than it takes you to step on a Lego, look around your living room, and wonder how tiny humans created this much stuff.

0:13.3

Quick question. Have you ever cleaned up the toys turned around and somehow the mess multiplied? Ever thought, why am I the only one who lives here but also the only one picking things up? Or maybe you've wondered, are chores really teaching responsibility? Or am I just bribing my kid with stickers and snacks? Today's follow-up is especially timely because with the new year coming up, a lot of us are in full declutter mode. I know I am. Downsizing, simplifying, trying to breathe again in our own homes. Yes, I'm right there with

0:38.9

you. I'm joined by Tyler Moore, also known as tidy dad on social media. He's a teacher, a dad of

0:45.2

three, and someone who helps families build routines that actually fit real life, not Pinterest life.

0:49.9

We talk about how to involve kids in household routines in developmentally appropriate ways,

0:55.0

why chores don't need rewards, and practical tips for things like getting out of the door

0:59.2

and tidying up toys without losing your mind and involving your children.

1:03.6

And before we jump in, I say this, but it's so important,

1:06.5

please make sure to subscribe and download your favorite episodes.

1:09.5

This is how the show continues to grow. Think of it as teamwork, which you'll hear a lot about today. And if you

1:15.8

love this episode, make sure you download and listen to the full episode linked in the caption

1:20.5

and share this two stories tagging at the Pete's Doc Talk podcast and at Tidy Dad. Let's get into

1:26.6

today's follow-up.

1:34.3

What would be your tips for everyone listening?

1:35.7

And I know you probably have so many.

1:38.2

Your platform is a great source of information.

1:45.7

But starting off, where would you kind of want to start with in terms of helping people kind of understand how to create some boundaries and create some routine in their household. Yeah. So one sort of guiding philosophy that I

1:51.5

talk about with my girls a lot is this idea of teamwork makes the dream work. And it's funny because

1:57.0

yesterday, so with our eight-year-old, she's sort of navigating friendship relationships

2:02.0

outside of school. And so she gave her friends my wife and I's phone number. So we're on the

2:07.2

receiving end of getting these texts from her friend. And, you know, we're giving our girls

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