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The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom

The Follow-Up: How to Handle a Tantrum

The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom

Dr. Mona Amin

Medicine, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Parenting

4.91.5K Ratings

🗓️ 25 August 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

Tantrums are a universal parenting challenge—they can feel overwhelming, embarrassing, or downright exhausting. But what if you had a simple, practical way to respond that actually helps your child learn to calm down? In this follow-up episode, I’m joined by Chris Lake, educator, child development expert, and founder of Behavior Booster. Chris breaks down his “Lake Method” of de-escalating tantrums in a way that makes sense for both kids and parents. We cover: What to do first when a tantrum starts (hint: safety comes before soothing) Why letting your child move through the crying cycle matters How to avoid common pitfalls that accidentally reinforce tantrums The power of validating emotions without caving to demands What an “extinction burst” looks like and why it’s actually a sign of progress Listen to the original, full episode. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠ page of the website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome back to the follow-up, where we revisit favorite episodes in less time than it takes

0:08.1

your toddler to hit the floor in protest. If you followed me for a while, you know that I love

0:12.5

talking about child development and behavior. It's one of those topics where I never get bored

0:17.1

because every child is different and every parent is coming at these moments with their

0:21.1

own challenges. And let's be honest, tantrums are one of those challenges we all face. They can

0:26.5

feel overwhelming, embarrassing, or even exhausting. What I found both as a pediatrician and as a mom

0:32.6

is that sometimes hearing different tips and strategies or even just hearing the same advice explained in a new way

0:39.0

can be the thing that finally clicks.

0:41.5

That's why I love this conversation with Chris Lake.

0:43.9

Chris is an educator, child development expert, and the founder of Behavior Booster,

0:48.4

and he has such a clear practical way of breaking down what to actually do in the middle of a tantrum.

0:53.3

In this follow-up episode,

0:55.0

you're going to hear the lake method of de-escalating tantrums, why the way we respond plays the

1:00.5

biggest role in behavior modification, and the common missteps that can accidentally make

1:04.8

things worse. This episode is a reminder that tantrums aren't about being a bad kid or a bad

1:09.9

parent. They're about developing

1:11.4

brains learning how to handle big feelings. And the more tools and perspectives we have, the

1:16.4

easier it gets to show up calmly and confidently for our kids. So don't just listen. Download

1:21.5

this episode because that's what helps the show the most so you can come back to it when you

1:25.0

need it. And if something Chris shares really resonates,

1:28.1

tag us at the Peds Doc Talk podcast and at Behavior Booster on Instagram. We'd love to hear

1:34.0

how you're putting these tips into practice. Let's get into it. I know some parents deal with

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