The First WLW Breakup With Becca Moore

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Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 17 March 2026

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

This week, Mal sits down with Becca Moore to talk about going through her first real heartbreak with a woman. Becca opens up about what she learned from the relationship, how the breakup changed her perspective on dating, and what she’s looking for now in a partner. It’s an honest conversation about heartbreak, growth, and getting back out there. Follow our guest @beccamoore, follow the show @madeitout and follow Mal @malglowenke Plus, don’t miss the YouHaul or YouGhost card game. Perfect for move-ins, breakups, and girls’ nights! Now available ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ :) 👉 Subscribe, like & comment to support queer content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey y'all, welcome back to Made It Out. Today I'm here with Becca Moore.
0:12.0	Hey, I'm so happy to be here again.
0:14.0	We have transparently recorded before.
0:17.0	And it is, yeah, released.
0:19.0	But that's okay, because today we're talking about something more fun anyways.
0:23.3	We're gonna talk about dating.
0:25.1	Yeah.
0:26.1	And who better to talk about dating as I approach this phase of my life?
0:29.5	Then the problem.
0:31.0	Yes. Time to be a problem.
0:33.0	Can you tell me where that came from?
0:35.2	One night I just wanted to be a problem and I think it was Applebee's. I don't know. And I just kept saying it wanted to be a problem. I don't know where it came from. I think it was more just like a problem to me embodies like someone that only really thinks about herself and dating. Like I don't care what other people want me to be. You know, when you're on a
0:54.2	date and you kind of feel like you're, like, transforming yourself into who they want you to be, and you can kind of tell. I feel like it was like a radical change for me to be like, you have to impress me. So to me, that's like being a problem. I was like, I don't care what you think. Like, I'm not going to make you comfortable on this date.
1:10.0	I love that.
1:10.8	And that was that an applebee's that happened?
1:12.3	No, that was just I wanted to drink a lot at an apple bees. And then I coined the term. But, like, dating-wise problem era is just, like, being very strong-willed in, like, what you want in dating. It's really just kind of, like, generic advice, but... No, I don't think so. I don't think so at all. What do you think
1:29.8	this breakup or this experience? Why did problem come out of that?
1:36.4	I think... I was just kind of sick of feeling bad for myself. I think for in the very
1:41.9	beginning, I was like shocked and it was like a lot of shock and then
1:44.6	obviously depression and then like anger and then one day I was like wait I'm allowed to like
1:50.2	I don't have to like sit in this misery forever like I'm allowed to date I think I was just angry
1:55.7	that it felt like the world had like moved on from my break because you know it was like clickbait
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