I was asked to speak about friendship in Thomas Aquinas, now, especially how to make friends.

Thomas Aquinas is highly theoretical philosopher. He doesn't really write about practical matters,

such as how to make friends, whether he has wonderful spiritual writings. He has accounts of friendship.

So I'll explain a little bit about that,

and then it will lead into the question of making friends. So the first thing we have to ask in connection with friendship is, well, what is friendship? And the classical authors

describe it as reciprocated love.

Now, then that raises the question, what is love?

And it's the wish of good to someone.

You might say the wish of good to something that has a good. I'll give you an

example. I have some wine. The example goes back to Aristotle. And I want to preserve it.

And I open up the bottle and I cork it. I put it in refrigerator instead of leaving it out uncorked, right?

I'm taking care of the wine. I'm doing what preserves it, keeps it good and

tasty and so on. Do I love the wine? Maybe when you're a kid, your parents would say, well,

you like wine, you don't love wine, right? On the other hand, consider my dog Lulu. Lulu is hungry.

I have to feed her, otherwise she will perish the way the wine would perish.

So I feed Lulu.

Do I just like Lulu in the way I like the wine?

I'm taking care of her.

It seems to me there's something that's more that's there.

I'm actually tending to her good.

It makes sense to say that Lulu has a good.

It's not that I put the cork on the wine and put in the bottle

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