Hey guys, Dean Grazioci, welcome to the weekly wisdom. It's an honor and a

pleasure to have you here, whether you're watching on Facebook or YouTube or

at dean Grazioc.com or anywhere, it's an honor to have you here where I

get to share every week and hopefully deliver you wisdom and capabilities and just some thoughts that can make a little shift that can make a big impact down the road.

And today I'm going to fall back. Maybe I do this too much. If it's annoying, please let me know.

But I'm going to fall back on a conversation

I had with my daughter yesterday, morning, before school.

Because when I listen more than I talk with her so I'm just not the preaching you know

giving her the advice I want to hear I want her to figure things out on her own and I've

had to get better at that I just want to give her solutions but the best thing is to

let her talk through it, but don't think

I don't guide her along this path to give her the skills that took me years. I do the same thing

with my son. Took me years to figure out. And when I tell her talking to a nine-year-old, it makes me realize

the improvements I have to make or the changes I need to make. So let me just tell you

so she's having a little trouble in school. I shared that with you if you watched a

previous weekly wisdom. One girl's a little tough on her, wants her to be just

her friend, and when she's not, she treats her bad. It's not bullying, it's more like

exclusion and causing trouble my daughter just

didn't know how to handle it. So yesterday morning had a great conversation

whether about loving herself that's what I talked about last week and and be the

thermostat not the thermometer.

I told her Eleanor Roosevelt's quote of,

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