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Modern Love

The End Of Small Talk | With Paul Rust

Modern Love

The New York Times

Nytimes, Redemption, Society & Culture, New York Times, Love, Essay, Storytelling, Loss, Nyt

4.48.7K Ratings

🗓️ 22 March 2017

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Paul Rust, star of the Netflix comedy hit "Love," tells the story of a man who says 'no' to conversations about traffic and weather. Even on a first date.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Modern Love The Podcast is supported by...

0:11.0

From the New York Times and WBUR Boston, this is Modern Love.

0:20.0

Stories of Love, Laws, and Redemption.

0:24.0

I'm your host, Megna Chakrabardi.

0:31.0

The perfect first date...

0:35.0

It usually lives only in our dreams...

0:37.0

...candolite, delicious food, an instant connection.

0:41.0

But in reality, first dates can be an awkward mess.

0:45.0

And the conversation...

0:47.0

...shallow, at best...

0:48.0

...which is the worst thing about first dates for Tim Boomer.

0:52.0

He's the author of this week's essay.

0:54.0

Paul Rust, star of the Netflix comedy Love, reads us Tim's essay...

0:58.0

...the end of Small Talk.

1:01.0

When my relationship unraveled nearly two years ago...

1:04.0

...I decided to suspend my career as an actuary in Boston...

1:08.0

...and take a long vacation in Costa Rica...

1:11.0

...where I plan to learn how to surf and do yoga.

1:18.0

Yes, it was the most cliched response possible...

1:21.0

...for a heartbroken, 32-year-old man.

1:24.0

After four weeks there, I was traveling by car...

1:27.0

...with several friends I had met at surf school...

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