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The Overwhelmed Brain

The Dysfunction of The New Normal - Offending Defensive People

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.52K Ratings

🗓️ 7 August 2016

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Has dysfunction become the new normal for you? Are you in a relationship where your toleration for bad behavior is so high that you don't even recognize what's bad for you anymore? That sounds like a topic for discussion if you ask me! Also, I read a letter from someone who wants to know how to deal with defensive people. There is a path to working with those types and becoming aggressive or offensive back is not typically the best way to handle their behavior. You may have to become a bit of a sleuth. Find out more in today's episode!

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Are you annoyed by affirmations? How about when you finally decide to talk to someone about your challenges and it goes a little something like this? It's great to meet you. Have a seat. So what brings you in here?

0:44.0

I'm afraid to be around people that talk loud or surprise me. I don't know why. It's like sometimes I just want to...

0:51.0

Ha ha ha ha to... Think positively!

0:54.0

You're only afraid because you forgot to tell yourself that there's nothing to be afraid of.

0:58.0

You know how to do it. It's like flipping a switch.

1:01.0

Before you flip it, you're afraid of stupid things like toasters and

1:05.1

trees and then you flip the switch in your brain and suddenly you're not wasting time

1:09.2

being afraid anymore. Can I go? Of course you can. You're healed.

1:14.0

Here, take my card.

1:16.0

It has a picture of my face on it and nothing else.

1:18.0

It's stupid to be afraid, so keep thinking positively.

1:21.0

And all your fears will disappear like a best friend that owes you money.

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