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Who has he anhakim verse number 130 of Surat Annisah

If the two separate in divorce, the two have divorced

Allah will bless both of them with his virtue

because he definitely is the owner of great virtue

and he is very wise. Allah has broad virtue, Subhanallah

So remember divorce is not the end of your life

It could be the beginning of a much happier life

and usually if you have faith and you keep trying

it is the beginning of a much happier life

How many times have we heard of people who've been divorced more than once?

And then they marry for the third or fourth time

and they are so happy they forget all the hardship that they went through

the first time, the second time, etc.

So my brothers and sisters it is not the end of the world

So Allah says when you separate, be respectful

you don't need to engage in mudslinging, speaking bad about the other

You need to worry about yourself to the degree

that you ask Allah for goodness not just for you

but even for your ex-spouse

more so if that ex-spouse is apparent to some of the children that you have in common together

So you need to make sure the children grow up respecting the person

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