Look, it's one of those things you just have to accept certain things in life.

Your anniversary dates, whatever it is, completely arbitrary and a billion percent irrelevant.

However, it means something to someone out.

Like, it has no impact on your marriage.

It has nothing to do with your day to day.

It does not help your finances.

It has nothing to do with your future.

It has nothing to do with anything other than it's been imprinted on this other person's mind that it's important. So for that reason alone and so that you can sleep in your own bed, remember. I don't have a problem with my anniversary, but the long after we say happy anniversary, we're kind of done because the truth is like, we still got to deal with the kids got to do this it means it sounds harsh but essentially it means nothing you know it's just another feather

in your cap to mark the years it's the ring and a tree right but understood that it's something

that you want to value so you go okay all right so all of that said a couple texts comes in and says

my husband has our anniversary and my birthday on his phone so that he remembers an entirely different

person dudes well of smartphones set reminders on these dates and have them repeat yearly with the

reminder sometimes those dates change but here's the beauty of what they're saying, though, is this is the admission.

I don't want to say we don't care.

It's not that we don't care.

It's just not super important.

But the fact that it's like, right, set it on your smartphone.

Ladies, just let that sink in from our point of view.

We're not saying it's not important.

It's not that.

We want to remember because we don't want to piss you off. We get that it's a big deal to you, but we have to set a reminder because it's from the guy's point of view, if this does not

help or hurt or move things forward to take care of this, take care of that, then it's irrelevant.

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