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Hi, I'm Kristen Davis, and I want to know, are you a Charlotte?

Welcome back, everybody, to Are You a Charlotte?

Part two.

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Here we go.

So, Carrie struggles mightily. She's big through the binoculars, Big sees her. Also, I just feel so angry at Big through this whole phase. I'm just like, Big, you're a mess, and you need to leave her alone. A mess. A mess. And that poor wife is Tasha. You know what he reminds me of? He reminds me of Jasper in the holiday.

Which one is Jasper? Jules. Jaspur is the man who comes to see Kate Winslet when she's on her Christmas holiday in L.A. Right. Is it Jude? Or the other. No, no. He's a, I don't know, some English. because it's Jack Black and Jude Law.

Rufus Sewell.

Rufus. Oh, incredible actor.

Yes.

And he... he's a, I don't know, some English, because it's Jack Black and Jude Law. Rufus Sewell.

Rufus. Oh, incredible actor. Yes. And he is like, I've just missed you and let's go on holiday and this, that, and the other. And then she's like, wait, are you still engaged to be married? I don't even remember this. I just wish you could understand how hard this all is for me. I'm so confused. I just watched it last week.

Oh, my God.

In my moment.

It's very similar.

I watch it like four times every Christmas. Wow. But my God, it's like you are with Natasha. You chose Natasha. Leave Carrie alone. And by the way, if you think you made a mistake, then leave that woman and apologize and then move on. He's going to do it, but he's going to do it in the worst possible messy, messy way. I just can't understand it. It's like say the thing and go. Totally. The mess is so unnecessary. I agree. But I also feel they're only as mature as they are. Right? They can't. You you know what I mean and big doesn't really get as much excuse because he's older and whatever but like Carrie you know and

this is what I love about Carrie so the thing that I love and I so relate to all of it right so

she rushes out of the opera and then she tries to call Aiden and he she gets the voicemail. Yeah. And you know, this is before texting really, we weren't really texting a lot, right? So then she hasn't heard from him for two days and she fully spins out. Uh-huh. Because previously they'd been like joined at the hip, right? Yes. That phase of the like the honeymoon of the relationship. Sleeping over every night. Right. And now she's just spinning, spinning, spinning, spinning. And you feel so bad for her. Like that's about her own, you know, development and like what she can't quite be with. Right. And so then she thinks she says to him, like, we just were too available to each other, which I kind of get, right? Like when you're just totally with someone kind of taking it for granted.

And she thinks, like, I just need a little space, whatever.

She gets a little space.

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