The Downfall of Casual Sex w/ Lainey Molnar

Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Violet Benson

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🗓️ 13 April 2023

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of self-hate, unable to escape the negative thoughts and feelings that consume you? It's a painful and difficult place to be, but it's not a permanent one. With time, patience, and effort, you can break free from the grip of self-hate and learn to love yourself fully and completely.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Lainey Molnar - a digital artist with thousands of followers online who draws women empowerment comics to liberate women from the immense societal pressure and to help all of us heal and grow through (self-)love, kindness, and acceptance.

Violetta and Lainey share their most vulnerable experiences starting from growing through a long phase of self-hate that became debilitating, self-doubt that made you feel less and ugly and unworthy of love, to the double standards of hookup culture and breaking free from an abusive relationship.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:59 “I live all over the world…”
05:50 How do you say it in Hungarian?
06:49 When did you start illustrating women's issues?
09:33 Advocating for women’s rights
13:49 How can you tell you’re existing in your feminine energy?
19:00 Don’t hate yourself too much
22:29 Your inadequacy demon
28:14 I used to be an extremely unhappy, self-hating person
33:57 We can’t just deal with the happy things
37:16 Three downsides of hookup culture
44:04 Deciding to be a celibate
50:50 Keeping yourself safe thru casual sex
55:03 Mentally, sexually, and physically abusive partner
58:00 Getting out of an abusive relationship
01:02:49 Being able to recognize the red flags

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0:00.0	I used to be a professional hater.
0:02.4	You're a Pisces, but I used to be a suicidal, mentally ill, extremely unhappy self-hating person in my young years. That little girl trapped in that young woman's body was
0:17.4	thirsty for love, was so unhappy, was so unseen, and what I chose to do with that subconsciously is drag other women down.
0:27.8	I couldn't live with myself.
0:29.2	It's vile events and your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for but see
0:34.1	welcome to almost adulting. Are you ready? Are you ready?
0:43.0	Hi everyone and welcome to a brand new almost adulting.
0:47.0	The largest self-love podcast in Movement,
0:49.0	your number one destination for personal growth and transformation. I'm your big sister, viola. and
0:55.0	destination for personal growth and transformation. I'm your big sister violetta. Before we get started, this is your reminder to quickly hit the
1:00.0	subscribe button, whether you're on Spotify or Apple or you're watching this episode on
1:05.6	YouTube correct we are on YouTube almost adulting so hit that subscribe and
1:10.0	notification button so you never miss an episode. Okay so today my special
1:15.2	guess is Laini Mulnar she is a Pisces queen and Hungarian illustrator who
1:22.4	uses her art to tackle and address important issues
1:25.6	regarding women's rights and she demonstrates how women are perceived by society and one
1:31.6	it typically is to be us. I recently I think I've
1:36.3	been following you for a couple of months now. Yes I've been following you for a
1:41.1	long time and then we just connected.
1:44.0	Yes, we've been following each other for a while.
1:47.0	The reason we ended up connecting was because she's really big into feminine energy.
1:53.6	And for this month, since we are talking all about
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