If I argue with what happened in the past, I'm literally using a fixed point, the past,

whatever happened, happened, to churn up all this suffering and unrest,

what I can do is change my relationship to the fixed point,

but I can't change the fixed point. Hey guys what's up and welcome back to another episode of the

Relationship Schools podcast here. I'm your host Jason Gatis, psyched to be here.

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