The Divorce Secret Happy Couples Know Too Late ft. Andy Heller
The Dad Edge Podcast
Larry Hagner
4.8 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 9 December 2024
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Andy Heller is a successful businessman and author who transitioned from writing real estate investment books to penning "Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family" after his own divorce experience. Through his unique perspective as someone who has navigated divorce personally rather than as a professional in the field, Andy compiled insights from attorneys, therapists, mediators, and other experts to create a comprehensive guide featuring 46 practical strategies. His groundbreaking approach combines a businessman's objectivity with expert guidance, aiming to help others achieve healthier outcomes for themselves and their families during and after divorce.
Today, Andy Heller shares his personal journey through a high-conflict divorce while offering strategic insights on navigating the process with compassion, including the vital role of early intervention and therapy for both parents and children. He introduces important concepts like utilizing co-parent counselors and special masters to ease the burden of divorce, while emphasizing the significance of strategic compromise on key issues for future well-being.
The discussion delves into Andy Heller's unique approach to preparing children for divorce news through proactive therapy, alongside practical strategies for maintaining effective co-parenting relationships post-divorce. His comprehensive advice, drawn from personal experience and extensive research, provides valuable guidance for anyone contemplating or going through a divorce process.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Dad Edge podcast. The Dad Edge movement creates leaders of men, leaders of families, and leaders of communities. We will not only impact this generation of fathers, but the next generation as well. The kids we are raising will have better chances and odds stacked in their favor because of the amazing example |
| 0:21.2 | that their fathers emulated for them. We are here to change the world. We are here to change |
| 0:27.5 | relationships. We are here to positively disrupt this generation of fathers so no man goes to their |
| 0:33.5 | grave with regret. We disrupt the drift of busyness and replace it with razor-focused |
| 0:39.1 | intention, passion, |
| 0:41.4 | purpose, and direction. |
| 0:43.7 | We are the Dad Edge, |
| 0:45.8 | and we're here to change the game. |
| 0:47.8 | We're here to change the game. Hey, hey, what's going on, gentlemen, welcome to the Dad Edge podcast. |
| 1:05.0 | I am Larry Hagner, your host and founder of this podcast show and movement. |
| 1:09.3 | Take the high road. How many of you guys have heard that? |
| 1:13.2 | Take the high road. That's a statement that I think is really triggering for people to take the |
| 1:18.2 | high road, which I think depending on your experience with taking the high road, maybe you're like, |
| 1:23.3 | yeah, I tried that and I got totally screwed, right? I took the high road. Like, I just got |
| 1:27.9 | totally taken advantage of. So there's that. Taking the high road can also be a positive experience. |
| 1:33.4 | You're like, despite this other person or these other groups of people or whatever situation I was a |
| 1:37.2 | part of, they were jackasses. And I remained in my, my integrity and my ethics and my character. |
| 1:43.9 | I took the high road and I didn't allow a bitter |
| 1:47.2 | situation to eat me alive and turn into a person that I didn't even recognize. I took the |
| 1:51.8 | high road, right? So it can be positive. It can be negative. But if you are experiencing |
| 1:57.4 | separation, divorce, troubles in your marriage, and you're starting to wonder, |
| 2:02.3 | like, is this marriage even going to last? Is divorce on the horizon out here? I really don't know. |
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