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Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

The Deep Impact of Childhood Experiences on Adult Love with Psychotherapist Jessica Baum • 338

Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach

Mental Health, Mindfulness, Consciousness, Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth, Inspirational, Awakening, Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9897 Ratings

🗓️ 5 March 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

We will learn: • The unspoken emotional pacts we make in relationships. • How to manage anxious attachments. • The powerful steps to sit with your past wounds, understand their impact, and start to heal. Have you ever found yourself wondering why certain feelings just won't leave you be? Like you're carrying this invisible backpack filled with emotions that somehow seem too familiar, no matter where you go or who you're with? You might have asked yourself, why do these bits of the past cling so stubbornly, shaping not just moments, but your very life story? See, the thing is, we're all a product of our experiences, but sometimes, it's not the ones you can outright remember that have the tightest grip. It's those subtle, often overlooked emotional imprints from our youngest years that silently steer the ship of our behavior, relationships, and, yes, even our self-worth. But here's a kicker: these same shadows, as painful as they can be, also have the power to lead to the most profound understanding of ourselves. Today, we're diving into just how much of our adult selves are blueprints scribbled in our young minds. Our guest is Jessica Baum. She is the founder of the Relationship Institute of Palm Beach. She has helped thousands of clients with her unique approach to healing, the Self-full® Method. Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/338 Become a Mind Love Member for high-value Masterclasses, Growth Workbooks, Monthly Meditations, and Uninterrupted Listening FREE 5-Days to Purpose Email Course Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes to wake up inspired Support Mind Love Sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to Mind Love, episode 338.

0:03.0

Today's episode is all about the deep impact of childhood experiences on adult love.

0:08.5

I am going to protect myself by creating a narrative in my head to prove the belief system that I

0:15.9

inherently have embedded in my somatic shape, right, that I'm not special.

0:21.0

And so I'm going to protect myself by looking for all the clues that

0:25.5

prove that right. And so the way to kind of come out that is we call it

0:29.8

disconfirming beliefs. So like experiences and that's when we have experiences

0:35.0

and you might have experiences with your husband where he actually does put you first.

0:38.9

Or you raise your hand and he responds in the right way or you start to like start to show that little girl

0:44.1

actually no like that's a part of you when you're scared that goes there and

0:50.3

look at all these other things that he's doing to show you that you are in fact first and to show you how important you are.

0:56.0

So you have to recreate positive experiences to counteract the belief system that's there.

1:03.2

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1:08.9

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1:13.2

It's time to give your mind a little love

1:16.0

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1:34.8

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1:38.4

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