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Dying Laughing with Jessimae

The Deaths We Don’t Bury | Kyle Creek (aka The Captain)

Dying Laughing with Jessimae

Jessimae Peluso

Health & Fitness, Comedy Interviews, Comedy, Mental Health

4.6650 Ratings

🗓️ 19 August 2025

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Summary

EPISODE: 9: The Deaths We Don’t Bury with Kyle Creek (aka The Captain) Dying Laughing with Jessimae Peluso Not all grief comes with a casket. In this episode, Jessimae sits down with writer and provocateur Kyle Creek. better known as The Captain to talk about the invisible deaths we carry: identity shifts, old selves, broken dreams, and relationships that died without closure.  We also discuss the death of parts of the self in order to prepare for brute change that comes with parenthood. They dive into the losses that don’t get eulogies, the parts of ourselves we had to kill to survive, and why trying to resurrect the past usually ends in emotional zombie mode. This is a conversation for anyone who’s ever grieved something silently without thoughts and prayers, condolences, or closure.  They discuss ego death and becoming someone new Masculinity, fatherhood, and letting go of who you thought you'd be. 🎧 Grab a shovel. We’re digging up the unburied. Dying Laughing Sad B!tch Spotify playlist:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4oEPcojn4F8tAl93m7O8dm?si=XvGd7MXASIyUh5qSIFUcmQ&pi=fzUNvYr0SP2oG⁠⁠⁠⁠ CALL/TEXT US: 513-916-0930 EMAIL: [email protected] Outro music: Breathe by Two Person Sex Cult FOR MORE FUN IN YOUR LIFE...FOLLOW JESSIMAE! SUBSCRIBE TO THE DYING LAUGHING POD: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://found.ee/DyingLaughing⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  SUPPORT THE FAN CLUB:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://found.ee/JessimaePeluso-Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SEE JESSIMAE LIVE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://found.ee/jessimaetour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  CHECK OUT JESSIMAE’S WEBSITE:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://found.ee/Jessimae⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW JESSIMAE ON IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://found.ee/InstaJess⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ BOOK A CAMEO: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://found.ee/cameo-with-jessimae⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everybody, welcome back to Dying Laughing. I'm your host, Jesse May Paluso, and today's guest is

0:06.9

someone who's built an entire career around telling the truth, even when it hurts. Writer, an

0:12.9

unapologetic truth teller, Kyle Creek, also known as the captain, well, formerly known as,

0:18.8

kind of like Prince. In this episode, we are talking about

0:22.3

the deaths we don't bury, those parts of ourselves that we lose that don't come with funerals,

0:28.4

the identity shifts, the emotional ego deaths, the breakups, the rock bottoms, and the silent

0:34.8

grief that doesn't always get named, but it still hits like a freight train.

0:39.9

Kyle shares his own journey through loss, what it taught him, what it took from him, and how it

0:45.8

kind of shaped the voice so many people now turn to for honesty.

0:50.2

We talk about how men are taught to grieve or not to grieve, how pain can turn into purpose,

0:55.5

and what it means to let go of the version of yourself that won't survive the next chapter.

1:00.5

This episode is real, it's raw, it's one hell of a ride.

1:05.2

I hope you enjoyed this conversation as much as I did.

1:08.0

Let's get into it, Dying Laughing with Kyle Creek.

1:20.8

Hey, everybody. Welcome to Dying Laughing with Jesse May. We have a guest today. I'm very excited to have this guest on, and I was just telling him

1:29.2

that initially when I knew I was going to have him on, I wanted to talk about the stages of grief

1:35.1

and maybe pick a particular stage in grief and have us dive deep into it because he is someone

1:40.8

who I know that I can tread those dark waters with without feeling insecure

1:45.9

and being able to be pulled in deeper with because he has that capacity. But then, like so many

1:52.9

times recently in my life, I think due to, I said do-do, due to a relative newfound sobriety.

2:02.3

Not like I'm on a 12-step program, but just clearing out toxicity in my life, I had this

2:07.1

epiphany come to me and I was like, oh, I want to talk about death.

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