Is there bad or even a dark side to being a millionaire?

Brian I am so excited about this because all the time we talk about aspiring to be wealthy and aspiring to build wealth and aspiring to have resources so that we can use money in that way.

However, on the pursuit and even when people arrive at that place,

it's not all rainbows and eucorns. There actually indeed is a dark side.

Yeah, I always think of like the lottery dreams where people are

thinking man with this one opportunity to spend a dollar two dollars I'll have

no more stress or burden. You know also I can do whatever I want whenever I want, however I want, I'll be happier.

And I don't know if that's truly the case.

Yeah, and I don't know that it's even a common thought that that's not the case because 72% of millennials right now

would suggest they believe that money can indeed buy happiness that if I have

more money if I have more resources then in fact I will be happier but I don't know that that's the truth.

But now look I want to be clear I do think having money can be a good thing. It's actually it's going to definitely be a I'll call it a lubricant to making happiness easier

I mean because you know where you get to eat better food at fancy restaurants if you won to use your access or sit closer to the stars or the entertainers that you want to be.

With more money you can buy nicer seats at the concert, but it doesn't necessarily solve all of your problems.

Yeah, you won't, you might not have to worry about like the food insecurity or shelter or safety or those types of things, but I would argue that there will be other stressors that enter in. There will be other things

that you have to make sure you stay mindful of and you bring into the light or else you might find

that getting to that thing that you are trying to attain or getting that place that you want to be

wasn't maybe all that you thought it was cracked up to be.

Well and I think that I want to differentiate there's a big difference between

looking rich and actually being wealthy and I think in America we have a

problem where we do have people who have good incomes and can cover at a few hundred

bucks a month their fancy house their fancy car but it's so much better to actually be

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