The Cult Was Just the Beginning: Part 2
The Dating Detectives
Dear Media
4.7 • 3.2K Ratings
🗓️ 13 April 2026
⏱️ 73 minutes
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Summary
In this gripping continuation of Abby’s story, what begins as a fresh start quickly unravels into something far more complicated and unsettling. As her new marriage takes shape, subtle shifts in behavior raise questions about trust, control, and the reality behind closed doors. With her past still casting a long shadow, Abby finds herself navigating a relationship that feels increasingly unfamiliar, forcing her to confront difficult truths about love, independence, and the patterns we don’t always realize we’re repeating.
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| 0:00.0 | The following program contains names, places, and events that have been anonymized or fictionalized for the purposes of protection and safety. |
| 0:08.7 | The following program is provided for entertainment purposes only, and any commentary from the hosts are strictly conjecture and should not be held as making any definitive statements about the truth or identity of any particular individuals or circumstances. |
| 0:21.4 | If you or a loved one are involved in an abusive relationship, please call the National Domestic |
| 0:25.6 | Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7234 for support. Happy dating detectives Monday. |
| 0:41.1 | We're back with part two of Abby's story, and it's a doozy. |
| 0:46.2 | Yeah, I know you guys are so excited to jump into part two because part one, you guys were, |
| 0:51.7 | we had a lot of good feedback about part one. |
| 0:53.9 | Isn't it crazy? |
| 0:55.7 | Yeah. So if you have not listened, definitely do not pass go. Do not go forward until you listen |
| 1:01.7 | to part one. But we'll do a quick recap. So Abby was raised in what she can now call a cult. |
| 1:09.1 | At the time, it was an evangelical Christian sect called IBLP. |
| 1:14.6 | It's what the Dugger family, 19 kids and counting, were also a part of. And it essentially just |
| 1:20.5 | raised her to be submissive, to obey, as a woman to be lesser and just there to serve the men and have children. |
| 1:31.0 | And we left off where she has gotten older, broken away from that is no longer really close |
| 1:38.3 | with her family or have many ties to them. And then she's married a man who she met through |
| 1:43.8 | church, although he's not the same |
| 1:45.0 | Christian. You know, it was her way out. I see that marriage as a way out. And then they just got |
| 1:51.8 | married. And all of a sudden, Caleb, her new husband, his behavior starts to change a bit, |
| 1:59.2 | right after they put a ring on it. And it's like, okay, like, |
| 2:03.0 | suddenly you're married now and then like suddenly everything changes what the crap is really going on. |
| 2:09.7 | And also, as always, I just want to thank you guys for listening and just being so supportive of our |
| 2:15.4 | guests and your comments are always so supportive |
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