Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast.

The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, money, women, and being a

fucking man without making any apologies for it. I'm your host, John Anthony.

And I'm Mark Singh.

And today we're going to be talking about why you shouldn't draw validation from women.

So Mark and I were talking, and this is going to be kind of a very broad

set of topics that we talk about today because validation and your purpose all this

stuff kind of ties in together and you know Mark and I were talking and

It was funny because for a long time I didn't have any money and I didn't have any women in my life that were really attracted to me.

You know when I was a kid I just never really got a lot of pussy, never really had, you know, like

super rich parents that just gave me stuff or anything and for a long time

that was what motivated me and these past few months I've just really had to

reconsider what motivated me and and where I drew my sense of purpose and

identity and validation from because I've already had all those things for a

while now. So first things first I also went through a breakup recently and that's had to force me to re-enter on my purpose as a man, you know, and I think that we talked about breakups last time and you know breakups are a tremendous opportunity to learn

So with that being said I guess let's kind of let's kind of go into it so first things first you never want to derive your sense of validation from really from anyone else I mean you know the reason why we say a woman is because that's where guys tend to get it from the most but but you shouldn't do it from anyone.

But you know, especially a woman because when you get into a relationship with the

woman, your lives become entangled and oftentimes that can be a really great and beautiful thing but a lot of times too it can cause a

fuck ton of internal psychological problems and so you have to always be on guard and just always be asking yourself like,

am I dependent on this girl's approval or can I be who I am?

And you know, as you go through your life,

you're going to have to re-enter yourself and you know repeatedly ask yourself that

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