The Crime of Murder and Survivors Guilt, Shame, Grief, and Loss.

Emotional Badass

Nikki Eisenhauer

Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Education

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2022

⏱️ 20 minutes

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In this episode Nikki discusses pain, survivor's guilt, grief and loss specific to the crime of murder, the normalization of rage online, and offers a constructive vs. destructive future topic for part 2. If you are interested in supporting us even more than a 5-star review, you can find Emotional Badass on Patreon where you will get hundreds of hours of bonus episodes, monthly video livestreams, discounts, and can join in the community. https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass Resources: Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day! https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning-routine Community & Exclusive Bonus Episodes & Video: https://www.patreon.com/emotionalbadass 30 Days to Peace Course: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/peace CODE: BADASS for 30% Off Narcissistic Abuse Workshop: https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/workshops CODE: BADASS for 30% Off Email Newsletter: for weekly wellness emails where we share mental health tips, announcements, discount codes, and highlight past episodes: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/newsletter Check out our Guided Meditations narrated by Nikki available for sale: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/store/meditations Follow us on Social Media: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/emotionalbadass IG: https://www.instagram.com/emotional.badass FB: https://www.facebook.com/emotionalbadass TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@emotionalbadass Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/emotionalbadass Thank you for supporting this show by supporting our sponsors: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello, welcome to emotional badass where Moxie meets Mindful.
0:05.0	I'm Nikki Eisenhower, your host, life coach, and psychotherapist.
0:08.9	And on today's episode, I'm sharing my response to more school shootings, part one.
0:33.6	Music I've thought long and hard about the I've thought long and hard about the phenomena of school shootings and how school shooters develop
0:42.1	and how I can add something of substance to the conversation and honor my lens of growth and good mental health.
0:50.9	How do we talk about what is unspeakable?
0:54.6	When there is such pain, there is an infinite way to get it wrong.
1:00.7	But I know the wrongest thing I can do is let the fear of getting it wrong make me say nothing at all.
1:09.8	Something many survivors have told me over the years feels isolating and depressing, dismissive,
1:15.7	lonely, even another betrayal from the human tribe.
1:20.6	Let me start by telling you what this episode is not.
1:24.6	This episode is not necessarily for the victims or the families, even though, of course,
1:30.6	it is. And it is not in any way, any offered solution that can satisfy us. This episode is sort of
1:41.0	for the rest of us who feel heartbroken, saddened and powerless after awareness
1:47.8	of mass death and tragedy, violence. My heart and prayers are with you. All survivors of the
1:56.6	Evaldi assault and anyone who has been touched by violence.
2:02.1	This is one of those things that I have become an accidental expert over the course of my
2:07.3	career in working with the loved ones of murder victims to counsel them through their grief.
2:14.1	When you hear me get tearful in this episode it's because of course
2:20.5	I am saddened about the recent losses
2:23.4	and all of the losses
2:24.4	but also it's because
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