The question you have to ask if you're single is am I willing to live with this person for the rest of my life?

Dr. Tony Evans reminds us that marriage vows should never be taken lightly.

When you break the covenant,

you will be separated from the life of God.

This is the alternative with Dr Tony Evans,

author, speaker, senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas, Texas, and president

of the Urban Alternative.

When married life falls short of the happily ever after standard, divorce is often the result.

But today Dr Evans explains that when that happens, more than just marriage vows get broken.

Let's join him.

Most people are mixed up on divorce

because they're confused about marriage.

Whenever you start your discussion about divorce

without having predicated it on marriage you have

reversed the order. People today simply say I don't want to be married anymore. But what is it that they don't want to be? If you

are confused about marriage, you will be terribly confused about divorce.

In fact, they make it as risk-free as possible.

You can make an agreement before you ever get married.

Anuptual agreement, just in case.

This doesn't work out.

Like a man who told his friend,

marriage is a serious business.

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