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The counterintuitive secret of leadership | Jessica Kriegel

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4.1 β€’ 12.1K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 30 May 2026

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Control is an illusion β€” and the leaders who chase it are holding their teams back. Workplace culture expert Jessica Kriegel explores the tactic that leaders who want to achieve extraordinary results should try instead.



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0:00.0

You're listening to TED Talks Daily, where we bring you new ideas to spark your curiosity every day.

0:09.2

I'm your host, Elise Hugh.

0:11.2

Surrender.

0:12.1

It's not a word most leaders want to associate with their leadership style, but workplace culture expert Jessica Creagle thinks it might be the most powerful tool they're not using.

0:22.0

She has the data to back it up.

0:23.7

The reality is control is an illusion.

0:26.6

You can't control anything outside of yourself.

0:29.9

The only thing you can't control is the way that you show up.

0:33.3

In this talk, Jessica makes the case that the leaders who drive the best results aren't the ones who control the most.

0:39.8

They're the ones who surrender, not in weakness, but in strategy.

0:43.7

Because sometimes the most powerful thing a leader can do is let go.

0:47.3

To surrender is not passive.

0:50.0

It is not giving up.

0:51.0

It is a radical acceptance of what you need to do in that moment that you actually have control of.

0:58.2

That's coming up right after a short break.

1:07.0

And now our TED Talk of the Day.

1:09.9

Every time I give one of these talks, I have a routine.

1:12.6

Okay, I start by showing up early and I do the sound check, I get the mic, and then I go in the halls and I walk around and I look at the audience because I want to get a sense of the vibe.

1:22.6

And really where my mind starts to go as I prepare, you know, get backstage, I sit down,

1:30.3

and I start to think about all the things that I wish were a little bit different.

1:34.3

You know, the things that are, they would be better if they were my way.

1:38.3

So I wish the room was a little bit cooler.

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