Sometimes when you win, you you really lose and sometimes when you lose you really win.

A quote from white men can't jump.

In this episode we're going to be talking about the theme of counter-intuitiveness. There's a general principle of life, one of my most important principles, which simply states that life is

counterintuitive. Life is counterintuitive. Now that's a very simple principle and if I just said that to you in a five minute video and you heard that you would just go about life and you wouldn't understand the depth of what is being said here.

Because something very powerful and deep is being said here, which is why we need to

go through a long list of examples to help illustrate this for you.

And I've been alluding to this

facet of life is counterintuitive and that facet right there is counterintuitive and I keep saying that

but we need to really hit it head on.

I first became aware of this

principle when I learned it from Eben Pagan who talked about it in the context of

being successful in business and also female attraction.

And in those two fields,

it's a quite an important principle,

and we'll talk about those two fields but then what I saw is

that I as I was studying personal development and applying it for the last five years and thinking

about it a lot and communicating it to a lot of people. I just kept seeing more and more

and more examples of how this principle is found everywhere throughout life and it was just a

mind-blowing for me and I kept a list, a list of all the examples. It's a very, very long and juicy list that I want to share with you.

So that's mostly what we'll be doing today. Success basically in anything is counterintuitive, whether it's in business, in attraction, in relationships, but also things like with emotions and with spirituality and basically every every facet of life.

You see the fool, the fool assumes he already knows everything.

And he just sort of stumbles his way into some new domain of life.

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