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The Allender Center Podcast

The Cost of Engaging Stories of Sexual Abuse

The Allender Center Podcast

The Allender Center

Psychology, Religion & Spirituality, Mental Health, Christianity, Trauma, Health & Fitness, Theology

4.6628 Ratings

🗓️ 15 March 2024

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

This week’s conversation dives into a difficult but essential topic: addressing past experiences of sexual abuse. We understand the weightiness of this subject and approach it with sensitivity and care. At the Allender Center, this work is central to our mission, and while it's undeniably challenging, we've also witnessed its profound goodness. Our journey toward healing doesn't involve bypassing the pain but rather moving through it.

Dan and Rachael navigate the complexities of addressing sexual abuse, acknowledging the costs - both internal and external - that survivors face. They compassionately explore the impact trauma has on the body, relationships, and spirituality. Rachael eloquently expresses the intricate nature of this process, recognizing the need to navigate the debris of past harm while holding space for the potential for growth and beauty.

The conversation extends to the ripple effects on relationships, including disruptions within familial, marital, and friendship dynamics. Dan emphasizes the importance of having supportive allies who understand the complexities of the healing journey, even as it may challenge existing relational dynamics.

In the spiritual realm, Rachael and Dan delve into the complexities of wrestling with faith in the aftermath of sexual abuse. They bravely confront questions and doubts about God's role in suffering while also acknowledging the possibility of deepened intimacy and connection with the divine.

We invite you to find solace, insights, and encouragement in this discussion. We recognize the immense courage it takes to embark on a journey of healing and restoration. It is our firm belief that it's possible to reclaim your identity and discover hope amidst the pain.

Please note that this episode contains discussions of sexual abuse and childhood sexual abuse, as well as brief explicit language that may be offensive to some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Thank you for listening to the Allender Center podcast.

0:06.7

I'm Dr. Dan Allender.

0:08.7

And I'm Rachel Clinton-Centen.

0:10.5

We're fiercely committed to providing hope and healing to a fragmented world.

0:14.7

And restoration for the heart.

0:17.2

Thank you for joining us.

0:18.5

Let's get this conversation started.

0:30.6

Thank you for joining us. Let's get this conversation started. Rachel, we're going to talk about sexual abuse, but before we do, and we're going to talk about, in some ways, the cost of engaging

0:40.0

the reality of our abuse, whether it be your initial foray into addressing it or your hundredth.

0:47.2

There's always a cost, and it's so very important to know what the cost is.

0:54.4

You have a passage in Luke chapter 14 that says, before you go to war, before you build a building, count the cost.

1:03.4

And we want to at least ponder that, that when we address sexual abuse, all sorts of proverbial shit hits the fan. Does that seem true?

1:17.7

Absolutely. Absolutely true. So we know there's a cost. And we also know, without going into a lot

1:25.0

of detail on this particular podcast, that the Kingdom

1:28.6

of Evil, Desaunt Wanis talking about this. And we spend a lot of time talking about a lot

1:35.4

of other matters that are very important. But certainly, as we step into this topic, I'm just

1:42.1

aware that it is hard. and there will always be something

1:48.6

opposed to you, to us, engaging, going further in addressing these matters. Put simply,

1:58.0

there's a cost. And so we want to, in one sense, do a good Luke 14 on our and your behalf.

2:07.2

And that is to think through something of the implications of cost.

2:13.1

Now, before we get into it, what I want to say is it will sound, certainly initially,

2:20.3

like the cost exceeds any benefit or the potential benefits.

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