If you need to sort of seduce someone or charm someone on the spot, are there any sort of techniques that they teach you?

Absolutely. There's when you really, like we were talking about, when you really think about charm, charm is charm and seduction alike are both an emotional connection.

Yeah.

So I don't want you to think of it in terms of a sexual connection.

Sexual connections are real and sometimes those exist.

But I would venture to say that the average person has really only had maybe two or three moments in their entire life

where they connected with somebody immediately, sexually. But we've had hundreds of interactions

where we've connected with people emotionally. And those people go on to become friends, or they go on to

become boyfriends or girlfriends or they go on to become, you name it, right? Colleagues,

partners and businesses. Emotional connections are so much more common and so much

more easy to create artificially than sexual connections to actually find two people who are so

incredibly sexually dynamic at the same time in the same place that is a hard thing to do so when

it comes to seduction when CIA trains us to seduce when they train us to connect it's not

necessarily about the sex it's never really centered around the sex it's centered around the

emotional connection and how do they do that?

You can learn someone's emotional state in the moment if you use assessment techniques, awareness

techniques, body language, verbal intonation. There's a lot of skills that go into it.

It's not difficult, but there are skills that go into it.

So you can understand where they are standing.

Are they coming from a place where they are angry at their core?

Are they coming from a place where they are comfortable?

Are they coming from a place where they are, they feel threatened?

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