Hey all you're listening to episode 167 of the God Center Mom Podcast with me. Heather

McFadden today I'm bringing on my friend Heather Hoppe to talk about the chillerie movement.

My goal is I want to create, I want to change the culture because we need a generation of

boys that do this stand up for those that are weak and there's something hardwired into boys

that they want to defend and protect and so when we free them up to do what God wired them to do

it is powerful so you even what you did with your son you did that you were like hey you should be

defending and protecting this person and he recognized that and he went and did it. She wants to

change culture. Go Heather goodness I love it. After this conversation I couldn't stop thinking

about what we talked about from her new book Knights in Training where she's taken what she learned

about medieval knights in their code of chivalry and created her own knights code that she even sent

me a copy and we have it on our fridge and I'm still trying to learn as Heather shares in this

episode how to positively train my boys and not just see it as a checklist of things I want them

to do but it's helped shape our conversation and not just be be good because mom wants you to be good

but to change and shift your behavior so that you are four others so that you see the image of God

and others and that you're trying to be a knight and what little boy doesn't want to be a knight.

I love what she shares in this episode planning on working out this summer. Another thing we're

working on in our house is sibling conflict and I don't know about y'all if you need help in that

area but I would love to share with you one of my favorite resources which is the connected

families sibling conflict course. You may have heard Jim and Lynn Jackson on the show before they

were episode 126 they talked about resolving sibling conflict but in this course it's five sessions

and I looked at it it's like 25 to 30 minutes per session so that's less than this podcast link

five podcast links and you would get through the course. They walk you through the piece process

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