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I Said What I Said

The "Children Need Care" Episode ft. Ayanfe

I Said What I Said

The Carousel Network

Humour, Nigerian Podcast, Women Led Podcast, Diaspora, Hot Takes, Dating, Society & Culture, Career, Education, Adulthood, Unfiltered, Relationships, Comedy, Self-improvement, Relatable, Millenial Women, Friendships, Money

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 3 June 2026

⏱️ 128 minutes

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Summary

This week, the ladies are joined by Ayanfe for a truly unforgettable episode. We start with a quick catch-up, then get into some dilemmas that go from confusing to completely unhinged. One listener’s husband is refusing to have children until his siblings do, another is grieving her sister while secretly falling in love with the husband she left behind.


Then Ayanfe takes us through his incredible life story, from how he first got to Lagos to ending up in an orphanage after an accident. He shares what daily life was like, the relationships he built there and what it took to eventually reconnect with his family. He also opens up about living on the streets with hustling boys and choosing to hold on to his honest craft instead of going back to that life. It is honest, emotional, hilarious and a beautiful reminder of resilience, grace and finding your way back to yourself.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, everybody.

0:01.9

My name is Aniophé Ola.

0:03.7

I'm a spring painting.

0:05.1

Yes.

0:05.9

So today on the podcast, what do we talk about, Anifeel?

0:09.0

I want to talk about the orphanage home.

0:11.6

Mm-hmm.

0:12.0

And the way I grew up and my lifestyle, my story.

0:18.0

Yes.

0:18.4

And then you also gave people very good advice.

0:20.0

Very, in fact, best advice advice very in fact best if you have

0:23.8

problem don't just call i hope so very good advice thank you very good time enjoy guys enjoy

0:30.5

umbusha are you into babebo more i actually do want to travel around niger it's just a trek. What I want to say? My other question, the teacher said, is it time for questions? Can't you wait? This is the podcast for you. I mean, just a sidebar to questions. Nobody's getting saved by the fact that you're not getting some. Act of being an adult grown upy city. Yeah. I said what I said. The Unslisted Opinions podcast starts now.

0:56.6

Who was prepared for this?

0:58.6

Ladies and Jasmine, you see that I didn't call you boys and girls?

1:01.2

Yes, because this is serious business.

1:03.7

It surely is.

1:04.8

This is very, very serious business.

1:06.7

In case you don't live in this country, you can see what's happening in this nation

1:11.5

and there is one thing we can do

1:14.2

forget all the other

1:16.7

argument of if it will work

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