Meet Monica Tanner, wife, mother and marriage intimacy expert and coach. Her mission: Lowering divorce rates by helping couples have better sex. Learn about her backstory as a child from a divorced family. She started a podcast, On the Brighter Side https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/on-the-brighter-side/id1345544810 She teaches the Five Step Framework to Complete Connection. She teaches about “Radical Intimacy” – Intimacy without boundaries. Find her online at https://onthebrightersideoflife.com/ And https://bit.ly/30dayplans And her Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 The role of connection, loving and safety in having mind blowing sex. The feelings of love and the feelings of desire are different. A lot of women struggle with, “I am not supposed to have pleasure” Myths about sex and intimacy in our culture. How one creates more fun, flirtyness and pleasure in life. The role of a “busy mind” and how it isn’t helping your sex life. Lost Desire?? Spontaneous versus reactive desire. The role of boredom in a marriage and what it does to intimacy. The three secrets to building desire. 1) The difference between love and desire 2) The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire 3) You can’t afford to NOT have a healthy sex life --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices